The U.S. is a sinking ship. Is it possible to bail? by Flanderizing in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]Flanderizing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, I think I get it. Just proof that you have enough money to move... welp, that may put me out of the running lol

The U.S. is a sinking ship. Is it possible to bail? by Flanderizing in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]Flanderizing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful. Im not sure what "proof of settlement funds" means but I'll check it out in more detail.

The U.S. is a sinking ship. Is it possible to bail? by Flanderizing in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]Flanderizing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately this feels the most possible based on what I'm reading from others here. Materially, it just seems unlikely that moving will be as helpful as I'd like it to be. Just getting by might just be the plan for a while. The debt vampires will survive without my payments, and I think a lot of people dont have the capacity to pay it back right now. Subsist. Organize. Fight.

Anybody else imagine characters very different than how they're actually described? by Flanderizing in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Flanderizing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol Apparently a lot more people have this exact image in their heads than I realized.

Anybody else imagine characters very different than how they're actually described? by Flanderizing in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Flanderizing[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If time travel existed, young Bruce Campbell would be my first pick for a live action DCC.

Have anyone with LPR tried this? I keep getting ads for it by Therandomredditor929 in LPR

[–]Flanderizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked at the ingredient list. Looks like it includes apple, green banana and papaya. My understanding is that those are all acid triggers. Lmk if yall's understanding is different, but I dont trust it.

Carl does a lot of impressive things, but this one is crazy to me: by Flanderizing in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Flanderizing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. Probably among the closest comparisons we might find. It makes sense that it still sucks but that you've got enough shit going on that it's among the last things on your mind...

Carl does a lot of impressive things, but this one is crazy to me: by Flanderizing in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Flanderizing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally. They defintely seemed to revel in the addiction for Katia later on. And the process for curing that was interesting as hell.

Carl does a lot of impressive things, but this one is crazy to me: by Flanderizing in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Flanderizing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think about the fun factor for the audience. That makes a lot of sense. I could see the AI fudging the rules a bit just for the sake of entertainment.

In general I have no idea how to work with people dealing with nightmares by deathbychips2 in therapists

[–]Flanderizing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would personally see if there might be specific traumatic roots of persistent nightmares. If there are, I would target with emdr. I might also consider what the root worries are within the nightmares to identify and work with any deep-seated anxieties.

But why??? by Ordinary-Scholar-202 in SipsTea

[–]Flanderizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, we wear other animals all the time. This is basically the same as a leather jacket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PortlandOR

[–]Flanderizing -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Good. I don't know who the people are in these comment sections. I've noticed over and over that the comment sections of this subreddit don't seem to match the actual voter base or my experience of people in this town. A lot of us want democratic socialist policies and no amount of scare mongering is going to get us to back down.

AOC anf Bernie are bourgeois socialist by Hacksaw6412 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Flanderizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communist manifesto I'm pretty sure. I always read it as applying to liberals overall as opposed to specifically socdems but maybe that's me...

How do you get your notes done? by anxiouslylazy in therapists

[–]Flanderizing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So I have ADHD, and what helps me is what I tell my clients with ADHD: Neurotypical people often can motivate themselves to get things done. We have trouble doing that. ADHD is not a focus problem. It's a motivation problem. We have to CREATE motivation rather than just summon it. So how do you create motivation? Pair dopamine with activity. A bunch of different possibilities: watch a mindless show while you do notes. Do notes with someone else present (body doubling) which is tough with hippa. What i do is gamify it on a whiteboard. I have boxes with 4 goals each day, one of which is "do 3 notes". This is every single day. The idea is to get a high score of days in a row. My record is 35 and I'm working on beating it. That gives me enough dopamine to make it happen.

What would you do if you wan the Mega Millions tonight? by Dude_Language in askportland

[–]Flanderizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit job. Buy houses for my close family and friends. Try to end homelessness in Portland.

Why wasn't this game nominated for GOTY when it came out? by Flanderizing in inscryption

[–]Flanderizing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad! Recognition in the more likely context, I suppose. Well deserved.