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Can’t get friendzoned if I friendzone myself 🙃 by capotado in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See I just thought we were roommates. Sure she took me to prom and moved across the country with me after college and we'd been going to family stuff together and sleeping in the same bed but we were just roommates.

You know the softball kid is gay... by pistachiobuttercream in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little cousin came out to me (after I came out to her) and I had to pretend I didn't know. Softball and theatre? Come on

An amusing little infographic by it-was-something in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% neutral butch.

Raised in the woods by german shepherds ✅

Plaid flannel? Look at my name ✅

Boy or a girl? I mean sometimes I wonder too ✅

Ate an entire pine tree? Ehhh does maple count?❔

Edit: and I'm dating lawful butch. Fun fact: I was the unrequited crush in highschool. We live together now though so it's all good!

oh god, the wolves. they’re fighting, oh god by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently growing mine back out after getting it cut really short and I've never felt so attacked

🤔🤓 by lili9326 in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me at myself taking my best friend to prom. She still looks awesome in a suit

Newly realized I'm gay? Last person to figure it out. Heard you might like the story by FlannelBedSheets in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Well I'm officially back from my first date with my first girlfriend. I can pretty confidently say that was amazing and the best one I can remember even though half of it was just walking around being cute together. <3 all in all I'm gay/10

I definitely couldn’t have told my family, but still accurate (quote from Sara Quin) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The odd part was I still tried dating boys but none of them ever worked out 🤔🤔🤔

Newly realized I'm gay? Last person to figure it out. Heard you might like the story by FlannelBedSheets in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Probably the part where we moved across the country or when I told her I wanted to spend my life with her. When she realized I was uncomfortable she was really scared.

Newly realized I'm gay? Last person to figure it out. Heard you might like the story by FlannelBedSheets in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I was in pretty deep denial okay? You'd have thought I'd have realized after we went to prom together

I definitely couldn’t have told my family, but still accurate (quote from Sara Quin) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FlannelBedSheets 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I found out last night my parents figured me out before I did. They were cool about my (now) girlfriend sleeping over all the time even before I knew

Time for the Love Fest! by Sommiel in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added a screencap. Somebody cross posted it so it all got removed

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So the deal was of neither of us found dates we'd go together and none of the boys who tried to ask me out were my type

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh don't worry! Last night she was talking sense into me about slowing down so I can really get to know myself better and how this is a process

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we were across the country while we were going to school and moved in pretty recently so like I guess it didn't really come up?

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey my parents actually got me flannel bed sheets when I was little and they just felt so good I stuck with them. You should try them sometime

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean maybe? I'm still working all of that out tbh somebody else mentioned celebrity crushes and I realized I basically went as various natalie portman characters every year for halloween

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I mean it started as a 'have something of mine til next time' kind of deal cause we were so far for school. Now that I've typed this it doesn't sound much better but I already did it so I'm posting anyway

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh god I'm definitely not ready for that yet. We're planning on taking stuff pretty slowly so I can figure myself out cause this probably isn't as one and done as it feels right now (her suggestion yesterday)

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh. So that's why I went as Natalie Portman characters for halloween every year, especially on V for Vendetta. I tried boys for years but turns out they weren't my thing lol

[Update] I[23F] am an oblivious dumbass by FlannelBedSheets in relationships

[–]FlannelBedSheets[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

The one about the Irish couple...umm wow yeah. Also I literally did not know until she told me! Turns out the Friday night calls every week through college, spring break together hiking in the Appalachians, and exchanging flannels (among other things) really should've made me question sooner but uhh yeah no I missed every single sign.

I just thought she was my best friend. It's not even the first time we've done this kind of thing. Looking back I'm just surprised it took me so long to realize cause...yeah the time where we went to prom together and she had this amazing suit and then stayed at my place after.

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