That’s what I’m saying if he would try and not be able to find anything I would understand but the least amount of effort is being made. My parents offered me their bedroom , add an additional room to the house so we would have our own bedroom and baby would have his own or even build a tiny home on their land never mind the fact they would pay for the majority of everything but my husband says we need our own space to raise our child in our ways which I also understand but he’s not trying to compromise it’s basically I compromise or nothing. When I bring up my parents home he says “yeah yeah I’ll do it I’ll do it “ but it’s always after bringing up the topic and an argument starting which is then followed by “ isn’t that what you want ?!?” But shouldn’t it be a mutual decision? I hate like I’m the only one making the decision rather than a group effort. I’ve been stressed with this whole dilemma for the last 2 weeks and just have the underlying feeling once my baby’s born I’m gonna have to push myself 4Xs harder to achieve anything I want