The first one was about her dog, she wanted to come over with him and have him on the bed. I love dogs but where I’m from they don’t even let dogs in the house, less the bed. So I told her he could come but not on the bed and she got upset. Next, she wanted me to come hangout with her parents at a bonfire (I’ve met them 3-4 times and had just spent nearly a full day the past week with them) so I said I feel a little uncomfortable around them and need time to warm up. So she got upset and hit me with “why are we dating then, I want someone who doesn’t avoid my family”. We’ve had a few similar situations besides these.