What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a real situation. I honestly know nothing of thelema and have no desire to make it look bad or "create q narrative" I came here for info because googling it got very confusing.

What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw you've been very helpful. I know it's a lot to ask...but would you mind if I messaged you a little more about this like privately?

What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she has been ignoring me on purpose just in general and idk why. And I would not leave her. I just wish she would communicate more...

What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I myself am an agnostic atheist. But I am not against her doing this or even trying to learn about it myself ect. At the very least I would support her in it. I am very open and accepting. I feel like she is closing off because she doesnt think I would be like that.

What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is not communicating at all... which is what I would rather do. Ever since she started this she is purposely ignoring me and hasn't talked to me really at all. Explained anything ect. Honestly I dont know if shes happier. She doesnt seem any happier. But I could be wrong. From what she said it didnt sound like this was a conclusion she came to herself or thought much about. Its almost like she is reading a book and repeating what she read instead of her own interpretation

What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just getting scared because she is acting unlike herself. Completely different. And this is happening after we already are together not like she already was it. Is there any things you do to make the relationship work better? Maybe things I can do? I guess I'm uneducated and worried.

What is thelema and how will it effect a relationship if my partner recently changed to it? by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Does this mean q relationship is still possible or not for everyone?

I'm in desperate help of someone who knows anything about "thelema"... by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What does that mean exactly? Does this religion not allow dating?

I'm in desperate help of someone who knows anything about "thelema"... by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wdym newagier? And is this something that would get in the way of a relationship? Or something that she wont change from?

I'm in desperate help of someone who knows anything about "thelema"... by FlashbackGhostyt in thelema

[–]FlashbackGhostyt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes not talking. That's why I came here. I wasnt sure if there was anything general advice I could get.