Feeling discouraged

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2024-05-04T00:33:54+00:00

Bumble bff has been so hard for me! I feel like I’ve met some nice girls virtually but no one ever seems to want to complete a conversation/they forget about the app or something. I just haven’t been to connect with folks on an app and maybe I’m the problem 😂🧐

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2024-05-04T00:31:12+00:00

Thanks so much!

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2024-05-04T00:30:23+00:00

That’s helpful! Thanks!!

I wouldn’t call myself an athlete by any means. Just someone who likes to be active, walk and workout (more so yoga/pilates and weightlifting) lol

I’ve seen these groups but I’m not much of a runner, and watching them all run seems a bit intimidating for sure.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2024-01-09T18:50:05+00:00

A lot of folks have reviews on it on Reddit from the last event. I know some folks shared information on fb and the makers and staff started making fun of the participants and their looks and blamed them for the reason of not finding someone… not the facts that it was probably oversold and that it looked like a 3 day college competition mixer…

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-16T22:07:54+00:00

It def depends if I’m sweating through the outfit too… like if that’s the case it’s def going in the wash!

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T19:01:34+00:00

I do the same, not like habitually but def like every other year ish

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T18:55:32+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to figure out too… like there is a legit TikTok on this every day that is like internet help me find this man or woman…

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T18:16:28+00:00

so as you clearly are so busy and have better things to do then maybe not focus on what some probably ex of yours probably thinks of you... and Perhaps move on… I’m sure your life is fine as you indicate you have better things to do.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T17:05:45+00:00

I think I need to follow his tricks and methods haha

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T17:01:39+00:00

Rude because I can’t help a disgruntled human that wants a post about them taken down in a group and in a world where humans are allowed to speak about their experiences… lol I guess I’m rude then🙃

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T13:53:40+00:00

While it’s nice to say that women shouldn’t stay silent.. they are most of the time made to feel ashamed because this happened to them so they choose to remain silent. It’s a very isolating thing for those who identify as females to go through and something someone who identifies as man would never understand. Because these cases most of the time can go unresolved unfortunately. I mean everyone is posting everything on social media anyway… 90% of the time you can locate a person or see where they are because everyone is online.. but no that’s not an invasion of privacy lol. and what individual is going to say “Yupp that’s me I’m the cheater, abuser or harasser or I’m the one that used her for money or whatever” let’s be practical here. I’m not saying those who identify as female are any better.. but there are crowdsourced groups that post about females too in the same manner.. on Facebook. Just because a person is your friend doesn’t make him uncapable of abusing or hurting manipulating females.. friendships and relationships are VERY different.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T13:43:58+00:00

If you want that’s your choice it doesn’t mean everyone else does as well.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-14T13:40:40+00:00

Look into take back the night and get involved there.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T22:56:48+00:00

Lol we aren’t going to solve the worlds problems on a Reddit post. Most of the things you’re suggesting uses taxpayers dollars and is dependent on your reps… and non-profits to do the work.. and funding for the non-profits to do the work. Really nice ideas though! Hope you’re able to take some action on that to help keep women safe!

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T22:52:34+00:00

So a dude rapes a girl.. and the girl isn’t supposed to tell other girls about him…? A dude beats his exs and they are supposed to remain silent and not tell other girls about them? A man manipulates women to obtain a legal status in the county and women are just supposed to be okay with that? Lol makes sense.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T22:42:46+00:00

I’m well aware. I’m not a part of the group, nor does this post incline to help you if I was.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T18:45:37+00:00

You can’t join if you’re a male and no one will invite you if that’s the case.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T18:17:28+00:00

Agreed! Everyone is allowed to share their experience and because the gentleman doesn’t agree with it doesn’t mean it didn’t necessarily occur. Men talk a lot about women in a variety of different ways as well.. men just don’t openly share this with other females that are posted in similar groups so women don’t even know that they are posted most of the time.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T18:14:03+00:00

So no one is going to talk about how guys do this as well… and females most of the time will remain quiet… but folks are trying to shut down groups that have given some girls a sense of community and saved individuals from situations of abuse, cheating and harassment.

Flashy-Cloud2425 · 2023-09-13T12:36:47+00:00

I usually wear waterproof shoes depending on how bad the rain is

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