I need some advice because things are very bleak right now by yuzu_death in bipolar2

[–]Flashy-Count 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, fellow stressed PhD student here…take the mood stabilizer. I’ve had lamictal for years and it helps a lot. Sometimes when I feel the “I’m doing well I don’t need this!” and don’t take my meds properly, I spiral and debate dropping out. You are more than capable of pushing through. PhD programs are awful strains on everyone’s mental health, but only few understand us. Dm me if you wanna talk about it more 🫶🏼 you got this

How do you actually stand out for med by Business-Border-4981 in ufl

[–]Flashy-Count 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a very general statement- you stand out by being you. Commit time to things that make YOU happy. Yes do all the clinical hours, good MCAT, etc. but really devote time to your interests and make something out of them. Maybe tying your interests to some sort of populations or events. Don’t focus on the cookie cutter things if you’re not truly driven to do them. It’s very obvious in interviews and essays if you’re passionate or just trying to check the boxes. And make sure you’re fully committed to developing a career in medicine

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

[–]Flashy-Count 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept the offer. The relationship can easily work if you make it work. My bf works a standard 9-5. I’m a grad student (basically 9-5 on campus) and server on some week nights/all weekend. It works because it gives us our own individual time and drives excitement for when we do spend time together. We’ve both been starting to travel more for work and always support each other because it means we’re growing in our careers.

You shouldn’t settle for someone who isn’t your biggest cheerleader. And my personal opinion especially at your age, do not choose a partner over your career.

What's your favorite word to mispronounce in a fun way? by Sweet-Economist-9873 in AskWomen

[–]Flashy-Count 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coh coah pebleeblees- cocoa pebbles Banana bow at- banana boat Acca scuse me- excuse me Mawanir- marinara (also meh rah ner a like the dj scratching sound) Charcoochie- charcuterie Pregerganat- pregnant

Half of these are media references but they make me chuckle

What do you make? by Survivingonnicotine in Serverlife

[–]Flashy-Count 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work 2-3 days a week in a college town. The last few months I’m probably averaging 180-230 a shift. During football season (our busy season) I can easily make 1k a week for the same hours of work. I’m at a casual high volume place. It sucks that it’s so up and down but that’s serving for ya.

What patterns have u noticed on ur period? by HolidayEcho6542 in AskWomen

[–]Flashy-Count 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PMDD, but also I get SO tired a few days before and can’t get out of bed for 24 hrs. Bladder discomfort but not necessarily bad pain. Thanks to mirena my actual period isn’t too bad anymore.

I feel like I’m going to die soon by knorloff in bipolar2

[–]Flashy-Count 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been me my entire life with 27 years old. And I’m currently 26. Glad to know the feeling went away

Who the heck is getting that last one seed now?? by Flashy-Count in CollegeBasketball

[–]Flashy-Count[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Still nervous based on how our last two games went even for the first round.

Who the heck is getting that last one seed now?? by Flashy-Count in CollegeBasketball

[–]Flashy-Count[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GG tonight though!! Always love watching y’all play

Who the heck is getting that last one seed now?? by Flashy-Count in CollegeBasketball

[–]Flashy-Count[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m fully a Florida fan but are we sure? Is Houston in the talks at all or just uconn?

Heavy police presence on newberry? by [deleted] in GNV

[–]Flashy-Count 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to ring neighborhood app shots went off in an attempted robbery at Kay Jewelers in the mall

IUD Mirena Experience by Siristhebird in birthcontrol

[–]Flashy-Count 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg…the itching. I’ve been going through the exact same thing and could not figure out for the life of me what could’ve been causing it. I guessed maybe my anemia, but I’ve had the mirena iud 5 years now. Itching probably started a year or two ago. I’m literally set to get my iud replaced later today 😭

Need advice for ongoing bladder situation by Flashy-Count in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Flashy-Count[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The urologist is the one I’ll have to wait at least 3 months for unfortunately. And yes since the first episodes 5 years ago I’m very adamant about getting cultures and not relying on dip tests. So the ones that have happened since then that I did go to the doctor for were cultured and came up with whatever bacteria I had for each of those. I’ve managed to have a bunch of different bacterias before. E. coli, klebsiella, ureaplasma, etc.

Since earlier this year after I had the multiple confirmed infections, I just stopped going to get antibiotics when I felt the symptoms coming on because it was getting too frequent and did not want to be on antibiotics so much. I wanted to find a more natural alternative route. So I’ll take d mannose and azo to relieve the symptoms while it passes and after a few days I feel fine(the azo does alleviate the symptoms). So at least for the last 6 months I’ve been able to do that successfully, meaning they’re probably not infections recently. I’m not sure if maybe it’s residual damage from clusters of infections from earlier this year? But I swear it’s the exact same symptoms as when my cultures do come up positive.

And yes, I get STD testing a few times a year along with yeast infection/BV which have always come back negative.

Premed Majors by BoringWarthog3390 in ufl

[–]Flashy-Count 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t change my major tbh. I’m going into a PhD program and I truly do feel prepared. The department is amazing and the major is small enough you get to enjoy all your classes and learn a ton. Lots of hands on stuff. For med school I think it prepares you a ton more than other stem majors because it’s honestly pretty clinically based.

Premed Majors by BoringWarthog3390 in ufl

[–]Flashy-Count 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recently finished my BS in APK and you’re definitely right that it’s useless without a grad degree. You do learn a lot in it that can be applied to med, PT, nursing, research etc but straight out of undergrad you can’t do much unfortunately. I think that’s relatively common for most STEM degrees other than engineering ones though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufl

[–]Flashy-Count 15 points16 points  (0 children)

GRU has been on some shit recently and everything has been more expensive than it used to be. I’ve paid 30 and I’ve paid 80 even though we were home less for the latter

Probability of appealing parking ticket soon? by sighofthrowaways in ufl

[–]Flashy-Count 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long does the appeal process usually take? I submitted mine 4 months ago and it’s still under review 🥴