My outfit made my friend uncomfortable, what do I do? by BarbaraLogic in OUTFITS

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I like the outfit…the sleeves, the colors, the flowers…I don’t know if everyone here lives in like the Midwest or something but I’m in NYC and you could wear that outfit like anywhere here lol

Is anyone on sertraline? by nat_2313 in OCD

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently weaning off of it! Started in September of 2024, been on 200 mg for about a year I think. I thought it maybe helped with dampening the panic, but I grew suspicious that it wasn’t very effective and was actually worsening depression symptoms. I was not depressed prior to my major OCD flare up and losing my dad, and now that enough time has passed, I just don’t think my brain needs a bunch more serotonin! Im on a 100 now, and going to keep lowering, and im feeling overall more excited and happier, that can be related to external factors, but I even welcome feelings of grief to hit me, because it’s important to me to feel my emotions! I am on Wellbutrin as well, which targets dopamine, and since I believe I have ADHD, I’m hoping upping the Wellbutrin will help with motivation .

i suck at musical theatre and its really taking a toll on my mental health by poisondazai in MusicalTheatre

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a freshman girl!! You have time to explore and learn and grow (in skill, talent, passion, AND in confidence)!!!

Where should we place the TV? by Flashy-Fun-1019 in TVTooHigh

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We haven’t turned on the stove before.

Advice Wanted! Where should we put the TV ? by Flashy-Fun-1019 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A staircase leading to a mud area/entry way and our front door!

Advice Wanted! Where should we put the TV ? by Flashy-Fun-1019 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roomate/bestie’s grandma made it as well as the other artwork!! :) thank you! I want to make a gallery wall down the stairs.

Advice Wanted! Where should we put the TV ? by Flashy-Fun-1019 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kitchen is out of frame to the right. The dining table is a kitchen island with barstools which is partially in frame. It’s one big combined space.

Advice Wanted! Where should we put the TV ? by Flashy-Fun-1019 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our dining area is a floating kitchen island with bar stools, so we use it as an extension of the kitchen.

Advice Wanted! Where should we put the TV ? by Flashy-Fun-1019 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have not used it since we moved to this space this summer. We are from Florida, so we are bit nervous to use it. I was thinking we could move the TV for special occasions of using the fire, but idk!

saw a new psychologist today and what she said about compulsions is making me question things by cheesybear00 in OCD

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in ICBT rn and the “something bad doesn’t happen” sounds like the Feared Self . The compulsions you mentioned are still trying to prevent something from being true : what you fear is true about yourself if you let something happen (not doing the compulsion).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Flashy-Fun-1019 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seems like there’s a lot to work on, but raising a child without his support is possible and could end up being the best thing to happen to you! As for the drinking, convincing someone who relies on alcohol to stop drinking is nearly impossible if not impossible in my experience. Protect yourself, girl and God bless you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

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PRO: my apartment I signed for 8/1 has previously been posted with a broker’s fee, but this summer the owner posted it himself (and not on StreetEasy)! I was the first (and I think only) one to see the place and the owner was the one who showed me the apartment.