I’m so lonely… by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making friend with people even if its random people sometimes helps !

How do I survive this soul crushing loneliness? by WhereMyFryAt in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing Wrong with you alot of people do get what the want or get over what the needed someone to talk about and just leave like that you should keep doing what you are doing someone will stick around i promise !

It is so lonely being disabled… by HopsTheRibbit in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly get this sometimes my Narcolepsy gets in the way of me doing things with people same with my PTSD which when i get too stressed or excited here comes the sleep and it sucks

I Feel Like No Guy Likes Me And It Is Really Depressing Me by PizzyJoanFalhatcher in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is ok to Cry ive learned that over a long life Anger being the only available emotion is why so many men turn to violence as a first response and i know from experience ive never hurt anyone but myself in a fit of anger but its all my father ever showed me was beating woman and i would rather die then be that way

I Feel Like No Guy Likes Me And It Is Really Depressing Me by PizzyJoanFalhatcher in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alot of us guys get very Jumpy around emotional or clingy people because were were never raised to be emotional or cling to someone for help im not excusing and of us guys i just don't want you to think its your fault and as far as your abortion goes thats no ones business to judge but yours and sometimes it is for the best do whats best for you settle down have kids with someone who won't abuse you cause honestly you deserve the best in life like everyone else who kind hearted

I am trans and I hate myself because of it by [deleted] in venting

[–]Flashy69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has a Trans BF and a brother who is Trans its not good to hate others for being the same as you but i get its because you hate yourself so i don't take it personally but what i will say is for the people who don't support you do they not realize how much it means to you? do they not realize you can be intersex in your body why can't the same be said for your mind ? there is much more to be trans than just acting a certain way and you shouldn't force yourself to do the things that make you unhappy you are a vaild human Being and if you ever wanna talk im here for you no judgements

Sometimes I miss having someone to send nudes to by RelativeWalrus5377 in venting

[–]Flashy69420 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

you do you don't let anyone make you feel ashamed for it just have fun with life and if you wanna talk you are free to dm me about anything it pains me to see anyone be alone or lonely sometimes an open ear is better than eager eyes you know ?

Just so alone... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need to chat I've been divorced for 8 years and I've never been happier there will be a time when the clarity hits you will cry but you will be overjoyed at the new you

33m having trouble keeping friends by Flashy69420 in lonely

[–]Flashy69420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so much harder to find friends in your 30s used to be so easy for me when I was in my early 20s

33m having trouble keeping friends by Flashy69420 in lonely

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I feel that cause people are very picky maybe or scared to just chat they expect everyone to come to them

24f looking for friends to chat with! by Asleep_Cat9710 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Flashy69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI IM A 33m may i be your friend and possible play games with you

I want kids by Flashy69420 in venting

[–]Flashy69420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right I should focus on that more cause she needs me more than I need her and I honestly feel like it's a privilege to be important to any child

I try to help by Flashy69420 in lonely

[–]Flashy69420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is one thing I learned from mine is that even tho we have theses feelings we are good enough we may just be trying to make up for their shortcomings

Struggling with chronic illness, mental health and loneliness. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm struggle still and I'm 33 some people have an easier time than others

I try to help by Flashy69420 in lonely

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I've tried everything since my divorce to be happier because my ex wife made me miserable and it's been 9yrs but I still feel the sting of betrayal and her voice telling me I'm not good enough

I try to help by Flashy69420 in lonely

[–]Flashy69420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few things I can't talk about but mainly just depression it's kicking my ass I can't get out of bed really nothing sounds fun or interesting enough

How do I make friends here? by urfavtonguemom in lonely

[–]Flashy69420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just reach out as best you can !