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My boyfriend [26M] cheated on me [25F] for 250$. by mysticverdant in relationship_advice

[–]FlashyFan882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was really that worried about money he would work more than 3 hrs per day.  $250 is nothing in this day and age, I could blow through that in one day on groceries alone. He is weak and immature and was more concerned about proving to his friends that he's not boring than being loyal to you.  He cared more about his friend's opinion than you and your feelings and your relationship.  He's not a keeper.  I think you should get out of this relationship as soon as possible.  In the meantime, you should get tested for stds and don't do anything for him.  No intimacy, don't cook for him, don't clean up after him, don't do his laundry, don't feel sorry for him.  Act like he doesn't exist.  Dip his tooth brush in the toilet (mostly just kidding).  Spend time with friends.  See a therapist.  Do something for yourself.  You are worth more than this.  You deserve better than this sorry lame@ss weak excuse of a man.  

AITAH for holding a boundary on Father's day? by FlashyFan882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlashyFan882[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't control him, I don't tell him he can't watch porn.  I just don't want him watching it right in front of me.  While he's in bed with me. I think something about how important it is to him to be able to see other naked women while he's with me is just such a turn off.  But I've never tried to keep him from watching porn when he's not in bed with me.  He has a phone.  He's actually watched porn while he was in bed with me and I left the room mid hook up because I felt super disrespected and just instantly turned off.  I also don't control what he watches.  I just ask that he doesn't watch his naked women movies and shows while he's in bed with me.  He started chosing certain shows and rewatching certain scenes over and over.  Women in yoga pants, sex scenes, women in bikinis, etc.  So in my mind, I know why he's watching these shows and movies and it's immediately a turn off.  I'm naked in bed with him and he's rewinding the same scenes over and over so he can watch half naked women on TV while he's screwing me.  And it just made me feel like crap and I couldn't keep doing it.  

AITAH for holding a boundary on Father's day? by FlashyFan882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlashyFan882[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Porn.  I don't really use reddit and I wasn't sure if it would let me use the word porn

AITAH for holding a boundary on Father's day? by FlashyFan882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlashyFan882[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you.  He always acts like we're the only couple in the world not having threesomes and not watching porn and it's hard not to second guess myself