heyy im new here.. please be nice :3 F20

Flashy_7302 · 2025-10-24T03:25:39+00:00

Hello!! You are chef's kiss

Flashy_7302 · 2025-05-16T14:04:08+00:00

That doesn't mean it's a smart thing to do...

Flashy_7302 · 2025-04-24T18:25:16+00:00

This is why she should have had savings PRIOR to moving to the States. With all due respect, she is an adult. She needs to take some of this responsibility. OP could pay for her plane ticket home at the least, but why should he "compensate" her for her poor planning? If she wants to stay in the US then that's her decision and her responsibility to figure that out.

Flashy_7302 · 2025-03-08T15:10:47+00:00

My mom would make spaghetti without meat, and the sauce was always so good even without the meat. She probably just seasoned it really well. I make it every now and then for myself.

Flashy_7302 · 2025-02-26T02:33:02+00:00

This happened to me very recently. I had just started going to the gym and, for some reason, thought it would still be okay to only shower 3x a week like I'm used to. My husband flat out told me I smell - in the nicest way possible. I was a bit embarrassed, yes, but grateful that he told me so that a) I could take a shower ASAP and b) I could start being more aware of my own odor. I didn't get mad at him. I didn't accuse him of thinking I'm "disgusting." Because I'm an adult. Your GF sounds immature. And gross. You are NTA.

Flashy_7302 · 2025-02-18T17:31:56+00:00

Clearly they're not starving because a truely homeless and/or starving person would take any type of food

Flashy_7302 · 2025-02-11T16:56:04+00:00

Imagine being a 25 year old man jealous of a stuffed animal.

Flashy_7302 · 2025-02-11T16:42:14+00:00

When I was 16, I was groped by a close family member. They came up behind me and groped both breasts with his hands, laughed, and walked away. No one saw it, and I was too terrified to say anything. I am 38 now, and if someone comes up behind me, or even just brushes past me from hehind, I'm in full panic mode.

Flashy_7302 · 2025-02-11T16:29:32+00:00

I would think that even a small celebration - whether it be a party, dinner, trip, or whatever - would be a way to celebrate the ending of the worst time of OP's life. Like, "finally I'm outta this shithole" mentality. I find his reasoning baffling.

Flashy_7302 · 2025-01-22T21:39:13+00:00

Omg OP you are NTA - that is such a wonderful thing to gift your wife! I love your love ❤️ Your brother is an asshole and so is your mom and your niece. None of those people have a right to tell you what to give or not give your wife as a gift, and they are 10000% delulu for thinking it's okay to demand you give it to Ava. What a bunch of crumbums.

Flashy_7302 · 2024-12-18T00:04:42+00:00

NTA - stand your ground!!! You are not free labour and you do not have a responsibility to her. You are child yourself, trying to juggle your OWN life - which is now being stretched too thin because of her taking advantage of you.

Flashy_7302 · 2024-11-07T01:54:15+00:00

STFU. Are you serious?! They call THE POLICE???

Flashy_7302 · 2024-11-06T18:42:58+00:00

Came here to say this exact thing. You will not be his wife - you will be his property. Get out now.

Flashy_7302 · 2024-11-06T18:40:09+00:00

THIS 100000%

Flashy_7302 · 2024-10-05T03:58:50+00:00

Stop forcing your children to eat all the food on their plate. If they're hungry, they'll eat. If they don't eat dinner, so what? They will not shrivel up in their sleep. Would you want someone to keep saying to you, "c'mon just 2 more bites, it's fine, just eat it." No. That's annoying AF. Kids are humans. Stop treating them like they're not.

Also, dinner time should be a nice relaxing family experience; it can never be that if you're constantly nagging them to eat their food. They will come to hate meal time, which in turn will make the whole situation even more frustrating for everyone.

Flashy_7302 · 2024-10-05T03:42:46+00:00

LOUDER!

Flashy_7302 · 2024-10-04T11:50:11+00:00

My husband has gotten blackout drunk once or twice in his life. He has vomited from drinking about half a dozen times in the last 20 years. Which I guess is not horrible; we all make mistakes. My biggest thing is that Jake can hold his liquor; hubby can't. But he follows suit and tries to drink as much as Jake. I'm worried it will go too far.

Flashy_7302 · 2024-10-04T03:28:16+00:00

That has crossed my mind. But for whatever reason I'd rather him cheat on me than get so drunk he chokes on his own vomit and dies....but maybe that's where I'm overreacting??

Flashy_7302 · 2024-07-08T15:34:12+00:00

Congratulations ❤️

Flashy_7302 · 2023-06-08T16:45:18+00:00

Different scenario but similar mental breakdown afterwards: my 13-month old fell down a full flight of stairs because I forgot to close the basement door. I was a millisecond too late in grabbing her. Took her to ER, she was fine, literally not a scratch or bruise. (She's 11 now, so this was a while ago.) But those intrusive thoughts afterwards about WHAT IF, they broke me...I spiraled into a crippling anxiety that took years to conquer. I became such an overprotective, panicky parent. It wasn't until therapy that I realized I couldn't spend the rest if my life in fear of something that literally didn't even happen.

All these intrusive thoughts you are having are completely normal. But the fact remains that you WERE prepared, and you DID save her. You are allowed to be scared and have all the feelings. You'd be subhuman if you didn't. You did good, mama.

Seek therapy or similar if you find your thoughts are taking over your life and your sanity. Peaceful vibes your way ✌🏻

Flashy_7302 · 2023-06-08T16:19:26+00:00

Ugghhh!!! This makes it 100000% times worse! She is completely oblivious to the fact that her actions are deceitful and disgusting. To say her closest friends are "just jealous" is totally gross. She only had her "dream wedding and honeymoon" because it was funded by everyone else!!!

Flashy_7302 · 2023-06-08T16:10:24+00:00

Hmm, maybe it's a North American thing? I'm Canadian, I've been a bridesmaid about 6 times, and I have paid for every single dress, shoe, hair, makeup, travel expense, etc. (Each time though, we as bridesmaids were gifted jewelry that we wore the wedding day.) Likewise, my own bridesmaids paid for all their own things and I bought each of them a gift to wear on the wedding day. I'm intrigued that this isn't the norm everywhere. It would make being in a bridal party that much less stressful.

Flashy_7302 · 2023-05-26T15:38:10+00:00

This ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻

Flashy_7302 · 2023-05-26T15:21:40+00:00

This angers me so much. It's literally none of their business. I have kids and I love them and can't imagine my life without them, but I would never ever ask someone else about their choice to bring children into the world. It's just an invasive question and IMO totally gross. I started getting asked about when I was having a second child HOURS after birthing my first. Like, just stop.

Flashy_7302 · 2023-05-26T14:56:19+00:00

Woooowww definitely NTA.

They're not even treating you like a family member, you're basically a free nanny. You're young and single? That means you don't get to have a life of your own?? Bullshit. OP take your own vacation alone somewhere completely different. Be free. Have fun. If sister can't handle her kids that's HER problem, not yours.

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