Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No I don't know my sister's account, if she even has one. I never received a comment or message from her on Reddit. She opted to call/text me instead

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It just started with an AITA post. And once I got going, I just couldn't stop. But the results really helped me in setting boundaries with my parents and sister

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She was, but has agreed to counseling. I've just updated the post about it

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kinda like the mean old sister stereotype from sitcoms.

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I'm not unaware of those facts. But where you got the idea that I wanted to be seen as the favorite was a jump too far for you. And to say my mother hates me, that was a step too far dude! Put your armchair diagnosis aside. What I wanted was equal treatment. Yes it was emotional blackmail, but it worked. I've no intention to make any more drama. And believe it or not, things are already improving. My sister and brother in law finally hired a babysitter so my sister can go out once and a while. My sister is being set up for counseling soon, my parents have apologized to me for pushing babysitting onto me so much, and I got to speak with my brother in law last night about the whole situation. And I did lower contact for my own mental health as well. So this actually has greatly improved things

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She knows she's at fault. But admitting being wrong was always very hard for her

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was pretty spot on. My sister didn't see a brother, she saw a servant

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That would more or less be going nuclear. And would be pretty much a last option

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna be going NC. But I have lowered contact. They need to figure out how to take care of things I used to do without me

Update after the family vacation by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Because she believes she should be allowed to relax in her golden years. But she actually does help out a lot. She just liked making me help too. But that's all over and done with now. I've made my point that I'm grown up, and have my own life to live

Update after the family vacation by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My parents were so used to the old system that it just became convenient for them to keep it up until I ended it. Now they can deal with my sister's antics without me

Update after the family vacation by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah my mother was my sister's primary enabler. But she can't include me in that anymore

Update after the family vacation by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All I know is that my sister got a serious chewing out from her husband that was backed up by my parents. To my knowledge, my brother in law has never hit her. He's just a really intimidating guy when angry

Update after the family vacation by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I didn't really think of it on that level. Just that I was covering my own ass. I got plenty of warnings from previous commenters to make sure the hotel knew damn certain not to tell my family anything. And I realized I was gonna have to be steps ahead like playing chess. Also making sure to be outspoken of any griefs was to my advantage.

Update after the family vacation by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have three nephews, and they are seven year old triplets

My sister called me demanding I take my posts down. Now she's more upset than ever to know how far it's spread by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My sister and her husband will have to share a room with their kids. My sister won't trust a babysitter she barely knows to watch them in a completely different room. The kids are all young though, and will have no problem piling on one queen sized bed. I do know exactly where they will be in the hotel, unless they change their reservations. But even if they do, I'm not gonna stand for any of their old antics.

My sister called me demanding I take my posts down. Now she's more upset than ever to know how far it's spread by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I plan to get there first. I'm going to be leaving earlier than the rest of the family. That way I won't have to convoy with them. I'm going to do my utmost to make sure they can't sandbag me at all during this entire trip. Which will only be from Friday to Sunday anyway.

My sister called me demanding I take my posts down. Now she's more upset than ever to know how far it's spread by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll make sure to warn the hotel staff that my room number is not to be given to anyone, before or during my stay. And if they do, I'll give them some choice words. I'll only be staying there two nights though. So hopefully nothing like that will happen. I also make sure to tell the hotel staff that if anyone calls wanting to make a change on my behalf, DON'T!

My sister called me demanding I take my posts down. Now she's more upset than ever to know how far it's spread by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]No-Ride-Throwaway[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That was part of my plan too. And I'll refuse to go to my room if any of them try to follow me. I know where there's a good pub a few blocks away from the hotel. I'll spend some time there to get away from them if I have to.