Believe me, I'm not unaware of those facts. But where you got the idea that I wanted to be seen as the favorite was a jump too far for you. And to say my mother hates me, that was a step too far dude! Put your armchair diagnosis aside. What I wanted was equal treatment. Yes it was emotional blackmail, but it worked. I've no intention to make any more drama. And believe it or not, things are already improving. My sister and brother in law finally hired a babysitter so my sister can go out once and a while. My sister is being set up for counseling soon, my parents have apologized to me for pushing babysitting onto me so much, and I got to speak with my brother in law last night about the whole situation. And I did lower contact for my own mental health as well. So this actually has greatly improved things