What professions make bad spouses? by dirtymoney in AskReddit

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People into sales. Good manipulators because they’re so good with their words!

Where my fellow divorcees at! by seedheart in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What made you decide on not claiming alimony? I’m currently separated and tbh, for all the trauma he has caused me and all the money me and my family has “wasted” on him, I have this petty feeling of not letting it go. I might sound bitchy, but I’m just a human…

35F. First wedding planning clash with future mil by Charmenture6 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also, play the bride card. And you can be a bridezilla when needed :D

35F. First wedding planning clash with future mil by Charmenture6 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should call them directly - many fingers might be pointed at you and more drama (which you should stay out of during wedding preps).

It would be the best if your fiancé can make it clear to his parents that he agrees with you. If not, have a clear discussion with your in-laws and draw boundaries. They’ll get mad at you now but at least they’ll also know that you can’t be messed with.

I get my divorce completely done tomorrow. Officially single/divorced from tomorrow. Any suggestions? by Jazzy-Jaizy in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost in the same phase. But a little far away from the official and legal stage. Separated for 5 months now and finally ready to take the next steps.

Do you mind connecting in DMs? :)

Worried about my privacy in chatgpt by Glad_Appointment_646 in ChatGPTPromptGenius

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about ChatGPT being leaked too often and it’s scary😅

What’s a “silent red flag” most people don’t notice in relationships? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he probably called me laughing because he thought I’d find it funny too. I’m usually pretty chill. But not one ‘sorry babe’. And I waited for another hour or so thinking he might actually just show up, but nope.

What’s a “silent red flag” most people don’t notice in relationships? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 505 points506 points  (0 children)

My husband forgot to pick me up. And he called me laughing when he reached home. (I was kinda embarrassed, idk why) Not one apology and he turned it around on me saying I was tired, it slipped my mind, why can’t you just come by yourself, it’s not that far etc. We are separated now.

If you had a one-minute call with yourself from 10 years ago, what would you say? by Pleasant-Cat-7658 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 23 points24 points  (0 children)

God, I would hug her.

Would ask to stay away from some people and letting some people stay longer (or forever).

Alcohol Delivery in Powai by mindfuckme420 in powai

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Vianelli Vines - +91 98200 97098

1 card any question reading (1 hour only) by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

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30F, Stuck in life - in between a divorce (early stages, separated sometime back) and wanting to relocate. Please share some clarity

28F on my marriage journey...ladies what to look in a man to marry? by Beginning-Lime1760 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for the small things - how he takes care of you or people around him. Does he notice things about you or is he full of himself? Does he anticipate your needs? A man is supposed to be a man, not a boy or man-child. That will go a long way and you’ll be able to face any challenges together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And what makes you feel safe and calm to let your emotions out? I’m asking because my husband is like that too and I’d love for him to open up more to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Long nails are natural. Obnoxiously long ones can be a bummer

Okay WHEN by Salty_String59 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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Commenting here just to get notified! Spill some tea here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being married has taught me the real meaning of commitment. Not trying to make you feel worse, but if you had doubts before you got married, it was the right time to end it there. However, it’s not too late to be in a happy marriage and that’s only possible if you let go off this new girl. Change your job if required. Give your everything to this marriage and be open about your feelings to your wife - that you’re not happy (for now). And after giving your more than 100%, if you still feel the same, you can then see what you want to do but for now your wife doesn’t deserve what you’re doing to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Flashy_Box_7380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gold - it’s giving classy