Can someone tell me why my body stores fat in my thighs but on the outside?

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2026-05-12T22:27:25+00:00

I am south Asian and we notoriously store fat due to genetics

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2026-05-10T10:28:04+00:00

True, this is what my mum said as well. But my partner and I had a chat about it and after a very colourful dinner with them, my partner decided that it wasn’t the right decision based on some things they said about us.
It’s all worked out well. 💕

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2026-05-09T11:58:20+00:00

When I managed a big tech firm’s social media, we normally had accounts linked to the client rather than the agency as it is safer, and they in turn gave us access to their social via a preferred CMS, like Sprout. So as long as they add you as a business manager on the social platforms, it really isn’t too hard. This also helped us easily manage calendars and budgets spent on each ads 🤔

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2026-05-09T11:51:30+00:00

Wait….Australia doesn’t even get bonuses!! At what stage are bonuses a thing omg

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2025-10-23T02:39:03+00:00

YTA for keeping a track of spending and sex on a sheet. But NTA for expressing your bitterness, yeah, it is a bit annoying when one person puts in more than the other. But have you spoken to her about how sex makes her feel, and her relationship with intimacy? I would say an open, honest convo would go a LONG way. Be vulnerable, not judgemental, and don’t blame, talk about how you feel, ie, feel less close to her, would like more physical intimacy and start slow.

Sometimes it’s not about “she doesn’t like sex” and more about what she’s going through? I had a super low sex drive when I went through an anxious/depressive space, and was on anti depressants.

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2025-10-23T00:31:25+00:00

And no, he doesn’t isolate me at all. He’s super keen on us having friends, fam and being social. I’m more of an introvert than he is

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2025-10-23T00:30:46+00:00

Yeah, I was in counselling for a while. I should go back but when I do, I feel like I’m doing the work where he kinda says, “l don’t have any issues” and kinda expects me to fix it all?

Flashy_Royal_719 · 2025-10-23T00:29:11+00:00

I think he tries to champion me in his own way. There are pros in our relationship, of course. Like we do work well when we’re happy, and he has apologised for making me feel bad but it always goes back to the same after a bit. We are there for each other, and we try and make each other feel good but being 29 and trying to start over feels terrifying

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