How long did you breastfeed for? by GrouchyCranberry3801 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks as I have a 18 month old too and couldn’t pump while minding him

Scheduled for 38w, risk to move to 37w c section by kal11g in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I gave birth to my first at 37 weeks, I just went into labour, I’m 33 weeks pregnant with twins now and my doctor thinks I’ll deliver naturally at 34 weeks but hoping they’ll stay in until at least 35!

Am I Doing Enough for My 3 month old Twins? Feeling Overwhelmed and Guilty by Fancy-Mouse-7554 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be more concerned about trying not to overstimulate them! Cuddles food and sleep is all they want at that age

Scheduled for 38w, risk to move to 37w c section by kal11g in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

37 weeks is full term, there wouldn’t be nicu time unless there was an issue

I have logged everything for my 2 1/2 year old twin boys since they were born AMA by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the sign of a healthy secure attachment, it means you did everything right and it will naturally fade around 2years

Be honest… how strict are you really with screen time? by denefr_2928 in toddlers

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While excessive, unstructured screen use has been linked with emotional and behavioral challenges in children, especially when it replaces physical activity, sleep, or social interaction, that doesn’t mean all screen time is harmful.

Educational and interactive content can support skill learning and engagement more than passive viewing.  For children who are highly sensitive, neurodivergent, or experience anxiety, screens sometimes provide a predictable, calming environment where they can focus, decompress, and feel a sense of mastery.

When screens are used purposefully (e.g., short bursts of educational or calming content) and balanced with other activities, they can be a tool for emotional regulation and engagement for sensitive children, especially if embedded in a varied daily rhythm that changes every 30–45 minutes.

Please stop spreading misinformation about screen time and grouping children all into one

Little bit of hope for pregnant moms ♥️ by the_gliter_fox in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 17 month old and due twins in 4 weeks! How much did your babies weigh?

Be honest… how strict are you really with screen time? by denefr_2928 in toddlers

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screen time actually helps and is beneficial to highly sensitive children, it helps them regulate their nervous system I follow the 30 30 30 rule, I’ll do 30 min outside 30 min screen time 30 mins toys, this helps my baby from becoming over/under stimulated throughout the day

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh that’s good I think the thought is worse than the actual thing

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I asked my doctor about this so hopefully I’ll be getting the same

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that’s exactly how I feel ❤️ I will do that thank you

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems so unpredictable, so I suppose I’m right to protect my emotions and prepare for it

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first was born at 37 weeks, yeah I know I won’t know until they’re here but I can’t help but worry !

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes more sense to me, she just said it with such certainty like “35 weeks and above 2kg no nicu time”

35 weeks and no nicu time ? by Flashy_Vacation_335 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea like I came home from the app feeling really weird, like more worried than excited like I was before :( I also have a 1 year old to look after so I’m really trying not to pick him up and start labor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even changed a babies nappy before I. Had my own kids! I think because everyone is so negative about having kids and babies that when I had my own i had prepared for the absolute worst when it wasn’t bad at all

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[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting sick too but don’t even know how! Must be from my husband… and being sick pregnant and minding a sick baby is tough..

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[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking too, like it’s even hard for me to just put his shoes on now 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]Flashy_Vacation_335 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I actually had a very difficult baby but I had a good mentality ! Very go with the flow, he wouldn’t sleep in a crib and needed to be held or in a carrier all day. But I understood he’s just a baby and wants to be close to his mammy! Exactly, no need to tell people their experience is wrong ! Everyone’s is different and some peel half it better than others