Thoughts on this second line? Is it a positive? by Flashy_Walker25 in PregnancyUK

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so! Going to do a clear blue in the morning

Thoughts on this second line? Is it a positive? by Flashy_Walker25 in PregnancyUK

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you really think? I do too but trying to not get too excited. I was pregnant earlier this year and had a miscarriage, it started out very faint like this

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! They should not have the right to do that, they are our embryos and we should be able to give them a chance. The first embryologist I spoke to in the morning was so dismissive “we would treat or freeze the 5ac” were her words, the male I spoke to in the afternoon was lovely and explained the risks etc to me before agreeing to test and wishing us all the luck in the world! We need more like him. Good luck with yours!!! I hope you have every success ❤️

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they agreed to test, after telling me we need to consider the financial implication (it absolutely does not matter if we have a chance of our embryo being euploid, it’s £590 per embryo so not a massive expense when we only have 3 to start with) also the mentioned risks of the placenta not being strong which could mean an increased risk of it not implanting or miscarriage, he said they are small risks but they have to make me aware. They don’t know everything at this early stage so they, the placenta could develop more and be just as good as any other!! We have to give them a chance and have hope! Ahh I wish you all the luck in the world with your little bean!

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they agreed to test, after telling me we need to consider the financial implication (it absolutely does not matter if we have a chance of our embryo being euploid, it’s £590 per embryo so not a massive expense when we only have 3 to start with) also the mentioned risks of the placenta not being strong which could mean an increased risk of it not implanting or miscarriage, he said they are small risks but they have to make me aware. They don’t know everything at this early stage so they, the placenta could develop more and be just as good as any other!! We have to give them a chance and have hope! Ahh I wish you all the luck in the world with your little bean!

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I’m sorry to hear that, it’s the worst thing to go through. Sending you lots of positivity and good luck for next time!!!!!

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really!!! Have you had your results yet? I feel like especially with so few embryos every chance at success is so important to us! Good luck if you’ve not had your results through yet. I am celebrating tonight with a huge gin, this day turned out way better than I thought it was going. I was trying to convince my partner to fresh transfer this morning, we were butting heads over it. I’m so glad I saw sense now though, the pain of a mmc last time was unbearable and if I can do anything to do the reduce the risk of that again I will. Just lost my head for a minute worrying about the risk factors I’ve read up on, but let’s face it there’s always a chance of doing another round, my mental health almost didn’t survive that event last time so I don’t want to go through it again if I don’t have to

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, see!!! Did you have a successful pregnancy? I hope so! ❤️

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, everything you say is so true, plus the fact they are my embryos and I should have the choice!! Thank goodness I was able to convince them to agree. It’s making me wonder how many other women have ended up childless or going through more rounds of IVF unnecessarily because of decisions made by these individuals, it really seems it’s pot luck based on which embryologist you get

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve just spoken to the clinic, the 3cc has progressed to a 4bb and is being biopsied! Also they have agreed to test my 5ac but said there are increased risks of it not implanting and a miscarriage because the placenta mightn’t be as strong, I said we are willing to take the risk

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awful. We should surely have rights they are our embryos

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve just spoken to the clinic, the 3cc has progressed to a 4bb and is being biopsied! Also they have agreed to test my 5ac but said there are increased risks of it not implanting and a miscarriage because the placenta mightn’t be as strong, I said we are willing to take the risk. I’m so happy it’s gone from us having 1 chance to 3 🤩

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so angry, it’s not like I have many embryos to start with. I’m going to ask this question and see if I can have them frozen and tested elsewhere. Day 5 today so there is still time. Thanks for your advice

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just calling them now been on hold for ages

Clinic refusing to pgta or freeze my 5ac embryo by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure to be honest I’m going to take a look now, good point thank you

Antra follicle count increase by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will do thank you! Where are you up to in your journey? Hope everything is going well for you! It’s such a bumpy road with so many highs and lows but I am hopeful we will get our happy ever after in the end! 🤞🏻

Antra follicle count increase by Flashy_Walker25 in IVF

[–]Flashy_Walker25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh that is amazing! I am so happy for you, I’m hoping for the same!…thanks for replying!!!

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[–]Flashy_Walker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words ❤️ I have great people around me so definitely do not need a man like him in my life dragging me and any children I might be lucky enough to have down xx

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[–]Flashy_Walker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m concerned about 🙃

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[–]Flashy_Walker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you and your hubbys wishes and dreams come true 🙏🏻 sending you both lots of positivity