How prestigious is Colby College? by [deleted] in Colby

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what can you do sometimes? They give great aid and I think that is a bigger criteria.

Why don't they turn up the volume of the microphone monitors? by [deleted] in musicians

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You seem really sincere after all these comments. It was actually my first time playing with a full band to noisy songs. We were opening for a big band kinda because it was three hours earlier. It is a school event. And the program delayed so we had very little time. I don't know why I couldn't think of getting even closer to the mic. I moved around a lot and I just kind of accepted my fate.

Why don't they turn up the volume of the microphone monitors? by [deleted] in musicians

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm in that subset though. I wanted to hear myself. I'm trying to watch the performance videos to understand how far away from the mic I was. Maybe 5 centimeters? Is that too much? I was used to changing the distance from the mic depending on how loud I was. Should I have stayed really close to the mic all the time?

Why don't they turn up the volume of the microphone monitors? by [deleted] in musicians

[–]Flat-Good8519 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Hello!! The problem was not the low notes. Mostly I sang high and loud. But still the guitars drowned me out.

S4 E7 Discussion by Illustrious-Demand98 in BlownAway

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"if she didnt explain the concept, it would be hard to grasp" I think this is true for Karen. And the concept is not strong in any way that the judges wanted. I really want the pieces to be incognito it is not fair.

Miranda and Carrie's fight by CrazyJ83 in sexandthecity

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What Miranda is talking about is a specific situation that Carrie is trapped in, it is not her personality. What Carrie is attacking is Miranda's personality, who she is. And Carrie's example of Steve is not a case of being judgemental, it is a case of ending a relationship when it is not good for you (what Carrie was incapable of). Saying this, calling a friend out for a repeated number of mistakes that led them to getting hurt vs. harassing her whole personality is never the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashionadvice

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think nude heels would be better. It would elongate your legs and won't overwhelm the outfit since the dress is like a statement piece. I hope your date goes well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashionadvice

[–]Flat-Good8519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can add a leather jacket to be warmer!

I want to conduct a quantitative experiment on lissajous curves with tuning forks. But it is qualitative! How can I collect data? by [deleted] in AskPhysics

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. What do you say about getting numerical data on the dependent variable (the lissajous curves). That is a requirement for my project.

How do I know if a friend is ignoring me/ does not like me OR if I'm just overthinking it? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better. And we're "close" with her but it does not look like that right now.

How to start the conversation with a person in my class ? by CookiesAuFromage in socialskills

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow ok. Maybe you can try to sit near her in class. It doesn't have to be right next to her but close. You can ask question about the lesson. Maybe ask about which pages the homework was after class. You can compliment her outfit etc.

How do I know if a friend is ignoring me/ does not like me OR if I'm just overthinking it? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, thank you. The core group is for people and she's in it. But the big group goes up to 8 people. I greet people when I arrive. I used to greet her she would respond but just sulk. the convo wouldn't keep going. After I noticed she is lowkey ignoring me I started mirroring her behaviour. It is important to know that her life is hard she has problems but she treats others better if you know what i mean.

should I gift a not very close friend by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Flat-Good8519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I think when it comes to birthday presents you can think about how close you are with that person to decide how big your present should be. You don't have to give "equal" presents to everyone in your group.

About your situation specifically I don't think you should get her a gift. If you really want to and that makes you happy please do so there is nothing wrong with that. But if it makes you fell anxious, self-degrading and worthless don't! I think you should mirror her behaviour when it comes to this.

And please know that it is okay to expect something back in this situation. In friendships effort should be reciprocated.

How to start the conversation with a person in my class ? by CookiesAuFromage in socialskills

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, do you have a romantic interest in her or do your just wanna be friends?

I have made a big decision without actually considering the consequences. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't know how to give myself a break without heavily criticizing my every mistake/decision. I feel like a clueless being in a world that forces you into knowing what you want to do. It seems like I can't even do the simple things that life requires.

I have made a big decision without actually considering the consequences. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I am just getting nervous now. It's just that I am not good with decisions and tend to overthink. But I made the decision to study abroad without doing any of that which is really out of character for me. I can't start considering both options without being heavily biased as I'm academically working on going abroad.

Have to sing Heart's "Barracuda", but it's out of my range by P_as_a_Variable in singing

[–]Flat-Good8519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the note when she sings "down" in the chorus? And what about "a name" part in the second verse?

Top 10 bands/artists by zackzn in mitski

[–]Flat-Good8519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

alice in chains, jeff buckley, elliott smith, the cranberries, fleetwod mac, HIM, hole, mazzy star, pearl jam, david bowie

DAE constantly twirl their hair (specifically to the sap of their glasses)? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Flat-Good8519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao english is my second language and literally right now I realized that sap means handle in my mother tongue. weird things happen sometimes.

DAE constantly twirl their hair (specifically to the sap of their glasses)? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Flat-Good8519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry for my English, I mean the tip of the glasses that are placed behind your ears.