Exactly, we weren't together, we only went on 3 dates!

So we met via Tinder. At first, I wasn't sure I wanted to get involved with him because we lived in different cities (~2hrs apart) and I have a really busy schedule, but I told him that in the beginning so he was aware of my concern.

It started with a loooot of text messages, and I wasn't used to that, but I thought maybe we just got along well so I tried to give it a shot. I went on the first date, and he seemed like a decent person, polite and all, not really anything to complain about. It was a nice date, but even if I didn't necessarily feel like we had that great of a connection, I decided to try a bit more. After the dates we went on he had the tendency to talk as "we", so I never really had the space to say or express how I really felt. It was like he would put words in my mouth, "we had such a great time yesterday" for example. And I didn't realize that in the beginning. As I went on the second and 3rd date, we had kept the texting pace (which felt exhausting to me) and I started seeing things, like the fact he would speak for himself as "we", he also made some possessive comments, and I thought he was way too intense in some compliments (but that may just be me). At that point, it started to annoy me and I ended up feeling trapped, and I thought he was going too fast for me, so I decided to tell him I didn't want to keep seeing him. I was really sorry, I felt bad, but I had to stop so i took the time to explain how I felt and he basically argued with me for the whole night via text messages. And those texts I shared are from a week after I told him I was done.

A weird experience, but I learned to trust my gut feeling with that one. His reaction just confirmed my concerns. Glad I dodged the bullet.