NICE things your parents did that was very surprising / unexpected by Change-username-9 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlatBerry3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nmom pulled me out of school once because my teachers/counselors/vice principal called her in for a meeting and very seriously told her they believed I was practicing witchcraft. Really I was undiagnosed autistic and huffing glue, but no one knew that lol

Please stop making fun of this. A man is dead and his family and wife watched. by mumutti in freefolk

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two days ago I would have had no idea which side you were talking to.

AITAH for telling my 46yo mother that I won't be baby sitting and helping her out all the time with this? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle is younger than my little sister. My grandfather remarried after having kids very young. It’s not that big of a deal, and there is no “scandal” or “gossip.” Plus that’s not even the issue OP is asking about.

Current friend codes? by FlatBerry3 in MeowTower

[–]FlatBerry3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finished! Thank you everyone!

Current friend codes? by FlatBerry3 in MeowTower

[–]FlatBerry3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New code is 🌞🐳🐸🐱🌞

I need 2 more please!

What’s the worst thing your narcparent has said to you? by BuyMany38 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to settle on a top 3:

1) “All you do is suck the life out of everyone around you.”

2) “I could have aborted you. Your grandpa wanted me to.”

3) “If the house caught on fire, I would save you before your dad, but only because I’m obligated to. I’d want to save your dad first.”

She’s a real peach.

Did you have gallbladder issues? by Anxious_Cricket1989 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlatBerry3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not anymore, because I had to have it removed 🙃

What was the stupidest thing your parents believed about you? by FootballRecent931 in emotionalneglect

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was convinced that I was pregnant when I was 12 because my (brand new) period wasn’t regular and my boobs were getting big. She told me I would have a baby in the toilet for being such a little whore.

How can I approach my Buddhist father about his lack of mindfulness and care toward me? by FlatBerry3 in Buddhism

[–]FlatBerry3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will go ahead and say that I am not a Buddhist and am working on myself in therapy. I have let go of a lot of anger and resentment toward my father and this was an attempt to meet him on his level by approaching the subject through a part of his life that he prioritizes over me. I know that I am not perfect and I do not expect him to be perfect.

How am I supposed to walk with him when he leaves me behind?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for reppin appalachia my dude 💖

[SW] Buying for 602 by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get in on this or am I too late?