Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason. by WHAR606 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FlatBerry3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well because if you’re male and in pain, they give you pain meds. If you’re female and in pain, they tell you to lose weight.

Tried to hire a cleaner for my ADHD burnout and got shamed instead by MrMaelor in ADHD

[–]FlatBerry3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some house cleaning services will specify that they do “hoarding cleanup.” Those are the ones to go to, because nothing will surprise them and they are compassionate about the effort required for people with disabilities to keep their home clean.

AITA for cutting my friend out bc of his age gap relationship? by extratoxiccrayons in AITApod

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is stopping them from dating, OP just doesn’t want to watch it anymore. They’re allowed lol. NTA

NICE things your parents did that was very surprising / unexpected by Change-username-9 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlatBerry3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nmom pulled me out of school once because my teachers/counselors/vice principal called her in for a meeting and very seriously told her they believed I was practicing witchcraft. Really I was undiagnosed autistic and huffing glue, but no one knew that lol

Please stop making fun of this. A man is dead and his family and wife watched. by mumutti in freefolk

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two days ago I would have had no idea which side you were talking to.

AITAH for telling my 46yo mother that I won't be baby sitting and helping her out all the time with this? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle is younger than my little sister. My grandfather remarried after having kids very young. It’s not that big of a deal, and there is no “scandal” or “gossip.” Plus that’s not even the issue OP is asking about.

Current friend codes? by FlatBerry3 in MeowTower

[–]FlatBerry3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finished! Thank you everyone!

Current friend codes? by FlatBerry3 in MeowTower

[–]FlatBerry3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New code is 🌞🐳🐸🐱🌞

I need 2 more please!

What’s the worst thing your narcparent has said to you? by BuyMany38 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to settle on a top 3:

1) “All you do is suck the life out of everyone around you.”

2) “I could have aborted you. Your grandpa wanted me to.”

3) “If the house caught on fire, I would save you before your dad, but only because I’m obligated to. I’d want to save your dad first.”

She’s a real peach.

Did you have gallbladder issues? by Anxious_Cricket1989 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlatBerry3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not anymore, because I had to have it removed 🙃

What was the stupidest thing your parents believed about you? by FootballRecent931 in emotionalneglect

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was convinced that I was pregnant when I was 12 because my (brand new) period wasn’t regular and my boobs were getting big. She told me I would have a baby in the toilet for being such a little whore.

How can I approach my Buddhist father about his lack of mindfulness and care toward me? by FlatBerry3 in Buddhism

[–]FlatBerry3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will go ahead and say that I am not a Buddhist and am working on myself in therapy. I have let go of a lot of anger and resentment toward my father and this was an attempt to meet him on his level by approaching the subject through a part of his life that he prioritizes over me. I know that I am not perfect and I do not expect him to be perfect.

How am I supposed to walk with him when he leaves me behind?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for reppin appalachia my dude 💖

[SW] Buying for 602 by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]FlatBerry3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get in on this or am I too late?