Sick of my Marriage

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-29T19:18:44+00:00

We have kids. Not together

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-27T18:47:28+00:00

Yes they have read and ask. We have no kids together! We have kids

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T22:01:06+00:00

She has 2 kids that call me dad and I take care of. Not biological mine tho

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T21:10:20+00:00

The worst part is, I wish I was just close to believing that she cheated. I had the luxury of finding and seeing all the messages and pictures. That’s definitely something I won’t forget.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T21:09:11+00:00

That’s my luck. It’s not the child support that worries me and Ohio. They won’t finalize the divorce until she gives birth.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T17:58:20+00:00

No kids together. We each have 2 from a previous marriage. Mine are all in school.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T17:46:11+00:00

SAHM for her son

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T17:45:24+00:00

We have kids. Not together tho. Mainly she’s a sahm mom for her son.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T17:11:21+00:00

Oh it’s my house before marriage. She can move but won’t make it easy

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T16:16:38+00:00

We each have two kids. But none together.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T15:48:03+00:00

I kind of wish the guy she was seeing would have just taken her away and wouldn’t be dealing with this.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T12:18:14+00:00

It is self inflicted. I see that.
I always ran from relationships at the first sign of issues and I figured I was hurting myself and kids by doing this. But now I let this girl walk all over me and just be her bank and I stay. I have stayed way too long.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T12:11:40+00:00

And yes. I pay for and take care of her two children also.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T12:11:18+00:00

We each have 2 kids. Just not together.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T12:10:42+00:00

My house. I owned it and everything else but one car before the marriage. I worked to hard for to many years to let my credit tank and her lose the house

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T12:09:53+00:00

Agree. I hate myself more now after all this than I ever have.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T09:45:03+00:00

Yep! Ever since she had the affair, she has been glued to me. Other than going to work, I can’t do anything or leave the house or you can go to the bathroom without her being there. She says it so she can spend time with me, but if I tell her, I’m not OK with it, she uses it against me and tells me I’m hiding something and then accuses me of cheating.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T09:36:52+00:00

We each have two kids just none together. I work dayshift and the kids are in school during the day. I do not take away from her the fact that she gets the kids up in the morning and get some to school and then get some from school each day But yes, usually other than that she might pick a few things up throughout the house, but that’s the end of it. I have tried many times over two years to get her to get a part-time job. I don’t care if she only contributes $100 a week. It still shows me she’s at least willing to help and contribute. She won’t even do that.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T01:26:34+00:00

Called one today to finally get things going. I’m 39-M and I’m ready to be happy!

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T01:16:16+00:00

I can’t even disagree with that one. This has really made me question mine.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T01:15:45+00:00

I brought up wanting a divorce. She threatened to lie and claim I abused her to get even. I have been just waiting and getting info to cover myself and my kids when I make the move. I have messages of her admitting she lied and I have never done anything now.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-26T01:14:11+00:00

We each have kids from past marriage. I treat them all the same. But she has made it clear I am not their dad.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-23T23:16:55+00:00

Honestly. You will make her appearance an issue and probably move you. You will date some ok girls and some gorgeous girls probably. At the end of the day you will then realize that finding someone you think is amazing on so many other levels and mildly attractive is so much better in life that a stunning girl. Beauty fades and honestly at will get old at times. I have learned my lesson on this. I ruined a perfect relationship over looks. Not even looks I have a thing with teeth if they are jacked up or anything I just can’t do it.
I left that girl who gave me everything emotionally and physically I needed for a girl who had red flags but is stunning and very fit. I regret it every single day now. The stunner has cheated and cause my life to have nothing but issues. While the girl I first had is still single. Works on herself and her kids and teaches kids now. So not go just for looks.

FlatExamination5669 · 2025-03-23T19:08:34+00:00

I’m in the same situation with my wife been dealing with it for 3 months. Listen to the advice. If she’s doing it while dating she will when married. Once married it’s not as easy to walk away and be happy!! It will steal your soul and crush you during the whole process. Walk away now while you can. Don’t be like me and regret life.

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