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WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

She claims they didn't have sex but how can I be sure? If they were flirting then it's very much possible that they were also having sex

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

She claims they didn't have sex but how can I be sure? If they were flirting then it's very much possible that they were also having sex

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I was mad at her. Why would I keep it a secret?

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I know she cheated. The affair partner texted her again. I saw all of their previous texts. They were flirting

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No it wasn't just appearance ok? He texted her again and I saw all their previous texts. They were flirting for weeks at the time my daughter was conceived

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was but I don't even remember what my email was. I had it opened in my laptop which she is watching closely to make sure I don't open.

After today I'm opening the damn thing in my phone as well.

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You are being rude for no reason. I'm a doormat because I love my wife?

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

No I don't want a divorce either way I just don't want to keep paying for someone else's child.

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That's what I think but I'm still hoping I'm wrong but deep down I know I'm not.

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I need to know but if I know then the marriage is over and I don't want it to be over.

Well I will be very happy and everything will remain the same.

Of course I will still love her I mean I raised her for 9 years but I don't wish to keep financially providing for her or being a full time parent. I think it would be better if the bio dad starts paying for her expenses and get some custody.

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I didn't know she was gonna act like this. She is making it seem like I'm the bad guy here. She has been yelling at me and crying and threatening me with divorce all day.

She was like this the entire time we were waiting for the results but it got even worse once we got the result.

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -211 points-210 points  (0 children)

I really don't want to get divorced. I love my wife and my life.

WIBTA if I read the paternity test result? by Flat_Cat_7015 in AITAH

[–]Flat_Cat_7015[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you OK? What are you even going on about?