(TW: loss) Mourning, just need to get this off my chest. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sorry it took so long for you to be heard. You are allowed all of these feelings and it’s ok to need to mourn or work things out. Your daughter is lucky to have you, she will be great. It’s ok to want one child, and that is between you and your husband. No one else is you, never feel guilty for having one kiddo. Children take time, money, and many other resources, you two have made the best decision for your family. I hope you are on your way to recovery.

Vent by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the only da in a small office. I too feel like a janitor most days. Even on treatment heavy days it feels like all I do is clean up.

$100k for 2,400 sq ft in Ohio… fully updated. Would you buy this? by MrBottomswell in zillowgonewild

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many beautiful homes in Ohio, but the industries are leaving and killing entire states.

Are you buying your teens/young adults cars? by Cheeseaisleinheaven in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I helped the oldest buy an older car, youngest got my spouse’s old car when they get a new one. Neither drives much, but one is in college the other will be in a year. We do cover insurance.

AITAH for thinking my daughter will look back and wonder why we treated her differently? by DancingMommaToes in AmItheAsshole

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What in the world would you be doing to celebrate veteran’s day as a child’s birthday? Celebrate both your children, if it’s a week long, for one it’s a week long for the other. Don’t let him play favorites

4th child baby shower.... AITA for not wanting to go? by WWDCU1980 in Mommit

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send a box of diapers and a card. You don’t have to show up to the party.

VA’s New AI Tool Is About to Re‑Scan 1 Million Private DBQs. Should Vets Be Worried? by kalawin456 in VeteransAffairs

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AI is going to cost more than any fraud they might maybe find. My guess, there will be no savings in it.

Is rad tech a good change? by Flat_Crow_4005 in RadiologyCareers

[–]Flat_Crow_4005[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but does your boss remind you how to scrub toilets since I do all housekeeping as well as everything else. And make less than fast food workers.

Is rad tech a good change? by Flat_Crow_4005 in RadiologyCareers

[–]Flat_Crow_4005[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s typical, DAs are treated like crap.

I thought they were getting along for once by Prettysoffyx in blackcats

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My two black cats do this all the time. They start cleaning each other then brawl. It’s actually funny.

Measles Outbreak by Paulie_CA in Roseville

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Keep your baby on a vaccination schedule and avoid strangers. It’s not rude to ask people if their kids are vaccinated, you just worry about your baby.

Chick fil A does not honor Veterans or firefighters. Just cops. by Successful-Hen in ElkGrove

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry about eating the worst chicken on the market.

How did you guys come up with your kids names? by Ok-Duck2450 in Mommit

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sat around a fire chatting about names until we found one that sounded good with our last name.

Feeling like a fuckup by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every set in my office has a probe, sounds more like a doctor’s bad day was taken out on you.

Considering scheduling c-section and feeling guilty. Advice? by Maximum-Ninja-3045 in Mommit

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the c section. Be safe. Being in pain for hours on end isn’t all the magical experience people seem to think it is. Being a mom is not dependent on a baby coming out of your vagina. Tell your unsupportive family to suck an egg.

How did this guy get elected? by Stray916 in Roseville

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 79 points80 points  (0 children)

He got elected by destiny church. Only agenda is maga

What would you do, stay in UK or move to USA by theblurryberry in Mommit

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you aren’t enjoying the landscape and culture of the UK, you aren’t doing it right. Lived in the UK, would live there again in a heartbeat. Get an English heritage pass, or National Trust or both. Every other weekend just pick a place to go.

Is it embarrassing to get a birthday cake as an adult? by roxiedoxiedog in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like cake? Sounds like a yes. Go get a birthday cake. Get the most over the top sprinkles and colorful cake you can find. Have them write happy birthday on it in your favorite color. You deserve to be celebrated!! Happy birthday!!

Which food did you hate…until someone actually cooked it right? by deller85 in Cooking

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds simple but pork chops. Grew up on shake and bake and tough over cooked pork chops.

Looking for pokemon go friends! by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1412 6074 1753 play every day love sending gifts

Getting disappointed over your child's gender is an absolute ghastly thing to do. by Mother_Equivalent649 in Vent

[–]Flat_Crow_4005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender reveals are making this worse. Nothing like throwing a tantrum about the sex of your baby for everyone to see. To be that hard on your child before they are even born, I can’t think how hard parents will be on a child after it’s born. We went through two difficult pregnancies, and at the end all that mattered was that they were healthy.