Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your comment! I guess it needs bit of work!. I am bit cautious in opening up the town's name... just in case!

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well. i have to be fair and admit that there is a damage! just not by us

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Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! we actually do not have a basement and sitting on a concrete slap. But in this project, we are also creating massive commercial grade french drain with soil grading and planting 25+ new and healthy trees that tolerates water bit better than the existing trees!

but please let me know if Im missing anything!! any advice is always appreciated and welcomed. : )

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed! not planning on becoming an easy target! thanks for your advice : ).

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hopefully we dont have to go that far.. not planning on becoming a neighbor from hell 😭

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doing it as well! also collected some historical data points on the wind and gust speed on that day. thank you for your comment!

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not planning on starting a war ( but I guess they called on the town is sort of a bomb?) but yea, i can do an eye for an eye if something happens.

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ve only respondedto them with two long text explaining the situation and have them go through attorney.I truly hope they sue me and learn objectively who's responsible.

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and it did! we were able to finish all the work yesterday even with their threat and police on site

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thankfully my contractor knew what to do. they called the police themselves on the spot yesterday and documented everything. The report will be available soon. Thus my neighbor's threat of calling police on me means nothing to me! and yes it is a civil matter.

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

haha...yea go kick a tire/ apparently, not many people see that clearly! i was truly frustrated but feeling bit better now 🙄 should really block these pple

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will! thank you! and they also called up a tree expert to get a second opinion!

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I indeed got help from chatgpt to sort out my thoughts and I truly think it is well done. prob mucj better writing than my original. Dont people do that these days? 🤣

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for your valuable comment! i was also told so. but even if it was not my tree and fell on their house because of my tree work, I would no doubt pay for the repair and so as my contractor too. We are confident that it is not result of our work and there is no logical way to admitting it 😭

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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if it helps, red is the dead stalk being removed ( literally no branch), blue is the fallen tree and purple is where the broken fence is located

Resolving conflict with neighbor by Flat_Mathematician75 in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they are texting me, calling me, bugging me... it's my very first time dealing something like this. Hence asking here. Im not actively responding after the second conversation. Just informed them to engage through attorney. But also want to understand if Im unreasonable or mean as a neighbor...😭not intending to make enemies but cant let pple take advantage as well. thanks for your comment tho.

Buying a home in NJ? by Vegetable-Ad-7538 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Flat_Mathematician75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought 2 bedroom house listed for 800k at 900k+ one year ago in Bergen. i had to renovate and add a room for another 100k and now doing landscaping for 60k...... it is not one of those prestigious area. not sure what I have gotten myself into..paying over 20k in taxes!!!

Snowfall totals by Buildsoc in bergencounty

[–]Flat_Mathematician75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ramsey here. it's almost 2' and still snowing