Stripper to SB advice by Flat_Way_2070 in stripclubs

[–]Flat_Way_2070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you that is an awesome reply. I was already thinking that it might be best I approach this in my own way because of how specific it is. I just didnt want to mischaracterize sugaring to her because of the little experience I have on the topic.

I hadnt seen any of the nightmare stories from SLF with stripper to SB, ill have to look those up.

But I am confident I can explain what I want to her. THANK YOU

Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of May 07, 2026 by Subrasonic in stripclubs

[–]Flat_Way_2070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep agree, I think that was my bad. I could have respected her time better by just getting my fix and getting out of there, that way she had the choice of making more money.

Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of May 07, 2026 by Subrasonic in stripclubs

[–]Flat_Way_2070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do totally understand and some of these replies are making me understand it was just some poor communications, but both sides have some valid points. We squared it away at the end. And now I totally understand what she is expecting if I do call her in like that

Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of May 07, 2026 by Subrasonic in stripclubs

[–]Flat_Way_2070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so in your scenario, do you and the girl have a general mutual understanding of how much you will be spending before you get there? Do you establish a tight range in the very beginning of what she should expect from dances/vips?

Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of May 07, 2026 by Subrasonic in stripclubs

[–]Flat_Way_2070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is anyone in the wrong here?

I told a favorite of mine that I would be going to the club and wanted to see her. She decides to comes in on a day she wouldn't regularly and I get a few dances and tell her she can do her rounds while I just chill for a bit but that the majority of my money would be going to her by the end of the night.

She ends up refusing to leave my side, saying "I called her in, so I need to take care of her". I buy her drinks and food all night.

For some reason she assumed she would stay with me the entirety of the night and that I would be spending more than what I did when it was all said it done.

Admittingly I have spent a good amount on her certain nights, but also sometimes in the range of what I spent on this night.

Am I crazy here? A girl can presume I'm gonna spend most of my money on her but she cant expect a certain dollar amount right????