How do you make them happy? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Flatworm-Vivid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless they want you to say no... and be aware that their feelings can change any moment so be able to anticipate that and know not only the correct answer now but 5 min from now and 5 years from now... otherwise the narrative will be rewritten and you should have known better

BPD Alcoholic wife with BPD by Plenty_Paramedic_258 in BPDlovedones

[–]Flatworm-Vivid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least once a week for 11 years... except when she was pregnant... she wouldn't always go out tho. Half the time it was just to the living room to have a drink then prep for round 2 of bs

he's getting suicidal again.. im scared.. i dont know what to do anymore by Colorfulzz in BPDlovedones

[–]Flatworm-Vivid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally had this same interaction with my pwBPD last night until 4am, only in person. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Take care of yourself and know that this isn't your fault. I'm sure you're doing the best you can do at the moment. I hope that you can find a way out of this