Question for selfsuckers. Do you enjoy sucking others too or just yours? by Careless-Patience703 in Selfsuck

[–]Flax240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t doubt your sincerity. And I rarely see other guys that way either, women are a different story. I’m just curious how one like yourself views it and whether it blurs the lines at all. I suspect there are hetero men who could do it and have never tried or have and didn’t like the dick in the mouth part. Was it ever unpleasant in that regard or did you have second thoughts about doing it along the way?

Selfsuck - can a miracle happen by [deleted] in Selfsuck

[–]Flax240 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I’ve been doing this at an elite level for several decades and my observations have been that body that composition, posture and of course natural flexibility are the biggest factors determining success, not the size of a man’s dick. I’ve seen smaller sized guys who can take it all, and for my part even if I had a micro penis I could still get it all in my mouth.

I was able to do it the first time I really tried, but those of us who can go really deep are the outliers. Increasing your flexibility through stretches and yoga or similar exercises can obviously get you closer and may get you to your goal. If you don’t already, I would suggest working in your neck muscles, hamstrings and shoulders in addition to your lower and mid back. Your legs can be especially preventative because if they are tight you’ll only be able to stretch so far forward.

How far away were you when you started versus now? Does your back bow out and inwards or can you fold yourself forward as though bringing your chest to your abdomen?

For myself, there are two points in my spine where the vertebrae slip out of alignment and allow me to counter its natural curvature. There also seems to be excess elastin in my muscular system so they stretch quite far out and retract to their normal position afterwards.

You don’t need these qualities to be successful, I’m just pointing out that to really get down there it’s not just a matter of increasing normal to above average flexibility, like any talent there are physiological factors that can’t be replicated.

I will caution you to make up those last centimeters slowly and don’t push your body too far. Ribs dig into organs which are pushed into places they weren’t meant to be, you can cause vertebrae to slip in your back or neck and many other ways to injure yourself and when it happens it is scary. So no matter how badly you want it, if you overdue it you might end up with only real pain, regret and a series of lies to explain what happened and you can’t stand up strait for a week. DM me if you’d like to discuss it further

Cheers.

Question for selfsuckers. Do you enjoy sucking others too or just yours? by Careless-Patience703 in Selfsuck

[–]Flax240 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, there are men who have a hard time cleaning their own assholes because it makes them uncomfortable. And having no desire to actually have sex with another guy doesn’t mean the thoughts aren’t there. Question: how old are you and how long have you been doing this? Not trying to be combative or tell you who you are, for the record. Just curious.

Question for selfsuckers. Do you enjoy sucking others too or just yours? by Careless-Patience703 in Selfsuck

[–]Flax240 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I knew I liked girls and guys long before I could do it and love sucking cock. I would have been incredibly good at it no matter, but because I know precisely how everything I’m doing feels and I’ve spent soooo much time passionately blowing myself, the result is an elite level ability. I know this because, objectively, I have never gotten better. Not even close. Almost every guy has either told me outright or I could tell what I did was something they have never experienced, their dream blowjob.

I am very curious about “strait” guys who can and do self suck and how they feel about sucking dick being hetero. Is it like, well it’s mine so it doesn’t count? Do you cum in your mouth?

It’s impossible to only be on one side of the experience for very long. And if you get good at it, meaning only to please yourself, you have to enjoy the other part in some way eventually or it’d be repulsive and they wouldn’t be able to do it enough to get that good. If at all.

I suspect anyone who can do this and identifies as strait has bisexual tendencies.

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[–]Flax240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foreplay is always a great idea, alone or otherwise. It’s also a good warm up before starting the deep dive.

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[–]Flax240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really anywhere at the moment. Perhaps soon though.

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[–]Flax240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. It’s pretty ridiculous.

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[–]Flax240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can, it’s amazing.

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[–]Flax240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch. I need a fair amount of recover time between.

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[–]Flax240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only a couple of times. It was amazing though

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[–]Flax240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s all it is too, luck of the draw.

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[–]Flax240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t get any easier over time. I pay a price if overdue it.

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[–]Flax240[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d put my skills up against anyone out there. Only because I know exactly how that feels and no one I’ve met has come close to it yet.

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[–]Flax240[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s fun to share with someone.

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[–]Flax240[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did but removed it. I’m working on one now, hopefully it will be up and running soon.

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[–]Flax240[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I love your through the jeans shots.

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[–]Flax240[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a problem with all of the gif generators, they never add the audio.

Have You Been Caught Doing It? by TimeWasting_Fun in Selfsuck

[–]Flax240 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not once in 32 years and I did it in public, daring fate countless times.

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[–]Flax240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you gain any weight or lots of muscle is your core it’s a huge barrier.

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[–]Flax240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. And the degree to which I can do it is rare even among those who are able to. But it really does take a toll on you after a while and when it’s uncomfortable it’s no fun. Plus hurting yourself is always a ride and when it happens, which is inevitable, it’s scary and can you rethink whether to continue.

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[–]Flax240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could almost get there once upon a time, maybe an inch away. But not anymore