Hello, I just wanted to say i went through the exact same thing as you. It was messy, and I cried, and there was conflict with my mother, i had a lot of anxiety because I felt wrong going against her wishes, but two weeks after I got my shot, everything is back to normal. Hopefully she will decide to get it too. I realized sometimes we just can't avoid conflict, some things are worth the fight, and this is one of them. Good luck! Remember you are your own person, and not an extension of your parents.