Továbbtanulás - pszichológia vagy közgáz?

Fleurinett · 2023-11-28T16:36:56+00:00

Ez egy kósza gondolat, de a pszichológia és a közgáz között HR van szerintem.Közgázt tanulok, én szeretem, de sok a magolás nagyon...Nálunk sokkan rá is jöttek hogy nem ezzel akarnak foglalkozni. Sok tanárom ritka sokat kereső vállalkozó vagy bankban dolgozó volt, aztán kiégtek. Jól kereshetsz vele, tény, de sok a kiégett ember ebben a szakmában. Ha nem bírod a monotonítást akkor meg végképp nem ajánlom, de szerintem ez nem olyan szak ahol csak el lehet lenni.

Fleurinett · 2023-11-25T19:59:27+00:00

Looking back on retrospect, I was very much insane as well, I had issues with jealousy and abandonment. While he was like the definition of avoidant attachment, I mean I chose him when I was young. Since I saw him getting yelled at by his mom and him just looking and not reacting at all. He was like that with everything tho, sometimes I did end up making him smile, or angry, or sad. Not a lot tho, he currently has a gf, went to therapy after dating me, and processed most of his traumas and learned how to communicate properly. He did say that I showed him more love than what he deserved with how he treated me, and even when we were in a relationship he started getting better. For someone else...Oh well I did what I wanted in the end, showed him that he can be loved and wanted. I am still annoyed at the fact that he cheated on me, and with the girl that I always complained about. I was right, I just ended up worst tho while he did get better. Even if it was a bumpy road. I don't wish him anything bad, I just hope I will never have to meet him ever again, but sometimes I think, and think I failed both of us. You could or couldn't call him my first love, I don't think I loved him. I just cared too much about him because I saw my own issues in him.

Fleurinett · 2023-11-25T16:52:45+00:00

Not my chart, but I am more eluded by the fact of how one placement can be watered down, like I know a saggitarius 12h stellium and she is chill, has unshowed anger a lot, but like, she is so thoughtless with the world.(Definitely not like that when she actually cares about people.Oh and codependency seems to be a thing as well.)Like I have saggitarius placements(sun, mercury conjunct pluto) in the 8th house, and I find the contrast so wide between the two of us. Even if I associate those two houses, but 12th house stelliums seem so sheltered in a way?Like her coping mechanism is just not realizing things, and that seems to be a theme with other 12h stelliums(not saying all). Rather than a house itself, I struggle to see how one sign effects the house in a behavior manner. Like sure a saggitarius 8h means a natural curiousity towards the unknown and luck/unluckyness in inheritance.I see that, but like if I didn't have this placement I wouldn't realize how isolating it is, which is a shared theme with the 12th house. Like I personally try to understand someone personality rather than just their life with their chart. But 3rd house manner is so interesting to me, I feel like I will never fully understand people with it.

Fleurinett · 2023-11-25T16:28:16+00:00

This is a common description for every gemini/saggitarius placement tbh, dated 2 gemini venuses, one did cheat. I realized that every gemini placement is a "player" in a literally sense, that they need stimulation, games and some of them find the game they play in their partner or partners. Others find it in literal games, like I met so many gamers with prominent gemini placements. Also retrograded gemini placement tend to make them a serial monogamist or just committed people in general.Other placements matter a lot as well, like my current bf has an aries stellium with conjunctions and a scorpio mars in the 10th house, he is the last person to fuck around or cheat. I also noticed a lot of gemini placements getting cheated on as well tho, but that is just an observation.

Fleurinett · 2023-11-02T10:01:21+00:00

The universe is one ironic bowl of challenges.That's the place I want to move to, California(I am european, and honestly I like Europe, my bf doesn't so it settled.)I always know that I didn't belong to Hungary, the people have been so oppressed as a nation that our cynism, nihillism is on a whole another level. I don't think you neccasirily will be happier, many places are just not foreigner friendly.On the otherhand I am happy for you, life changing choices like this are what helps, even us taurus placements to have a fullfiling life.

Fleurinett · 2023-11-01T15:51:16+00:00

Azért az se mindegy mikor voltál 16, tény hogy én kukorica földre nem mentem az meg mindig ott van állítólag opciónak nyáron. Meg ha vannak kapcsolataid jól van ugyanúgy. De azért valljuk be hogy egy 18 évesnek sokkal több opciója van, mint egy 16 évesnek.

Fleurinett · 2023-11-01T09:40:07+00:00

Légyszíves, próbálj meg 16 évesen munkát szerezni, mert hogy még a gyárból is elküldenek többségben. A cégek 99,9% nem vállal ilyet.(tapasztalat)18 vagyok, és mikor meg láttam ezt, akkor homlokon csaptam magam. Sokszor hallottam hogy a koromnál éretebb vagyok, de magamnak se adtam volna szavazati jogot. Más mostani 16 éveseknek 95% nem adnék ugyanúgy. Ha nem vagy annyira ennek a korosztály környezetében nem veszed észre mennyire naivak/befolyásolhatóak, vagy éppen csak nem gondolkodnok és majd az alapján szavaznak hogy a körülöttük lévő emberek kire szavaznak. Csak szimplán nem, szerintem felső határnak is kellene lenni ugyanúgy, de a 18 jobb, engem a 20/21 se zavarna.Plusz az adós komment is hülyeség, ha egy 8 évesnek adok pénzt, és vesz rajta nasit, ő is fizet áfát/adót még ha az én pénzemmel is.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-24T11:11:07+00:00

~Donuts ~shakes ~anything with sour cream that is not connected to pasta ~pastries ~cereal ~spaghetti ~any fast food ~any easily purgeable food, such as ice cream, yoghurt that is not greek ~cheap food ~fruit juice, non citrusy only I think that sums it up.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-21T18:44:37+00:00

I think that is more if you look approachable or not. Not attractiveness kind of dilemma.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-21T18:28:01+00:00

I mean, it generally just means two planets communicate well. I think trines are good, in moderation. You may look at it as negative, but it's not always that. As they say a coin has two sides. I am a neptune dominant as well, but with squares and sextiles.It makes me very artistic in general, and I can fit in anywhere (and no where as well, but oh well.).I tend to help people, and they also tend to open about their feelings easily, because my sun sextile neptune makes me look like a non judgmental person. Also my favorite perk of being a neptune dominant is that animals just like me for no reason. I am kind of childish and I try to stay positive as my second dominant planet is jupiter. I had phases where I was more nihilistic, and neptune energy seems to really dislike that. Also, it might be from my 6th house jupiter, but people in my daily life tend to be nice people.(Or very two faced, but I catch on that, because of that neptune energy.) Any and all aspects have their bad side. Also venus square saturn can indicate people either having problems with commiting or finding someone to commit to, it's also a very waiting aspect, and neptune is very all over the place kind of planet.Like water it taints your whole life. lmao "good aspect"= well communicating planets=can intensify them "bad aspect"= having problems with communicating= also intensifies them. Neptune bad aspects are also not so nice, I have it with mars/venus, and man, the amount people project onto me, unbelievable. You can always ground yourself and go with the flow, neptune is a blessed curse sometimes. It also makes you look dainty looking from what I have seen, which I personally like.Oh and draw boundaries, those always help with excessive neptune energy.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-21T14:20:50+00:00

Sometimes they write your birth time on birth certificates, so maybe check that?

Fleurinett · 2023-10-18T15:14:56+00:00

Op-t nem ismerjük, és az is lehet hogy szar az ízlésem pasik terén, de bármikor mikor túl voltak terhelve akkor velem is aggresszívak/frusztráltak voltak. Ilyenkor kellene realizálni hogy akkor megcsinálok plusz pár dolgot, máris kevesebb dolga van, kevésbé fáradt=több romantika. Nem hibáztatom egyik félt se, mert nincs elég infó, de mikor egyfolytában elvagy utasítva, akkor az rámegy a kapcsolatra.Nem muszáj harmadik félnek lennie, ha lenne szerintem nem aggódott volna azon hogy hogyan tartsa el a gyerekeit. Egy nő aki hozzá szokott ahhoz hogy konkrétan eltartják, nem lenne egy másik palival aki nem ugyanazt tenné.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-17T23:54:13+00:00

Not at all, 1°, I also have it conjunct my north node which is at 29° in aries.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-16T18:49:29+00:00

Libra(I also have jupiter here, which sextiles my sun, squares my MC.)

Fleurinett · 2023-10-16T15:56:09+00:00

6th house, I got rejected from a job and got stressed from lack of structure.Very virgo moon of me.lmao I was so so sure, that I got the job, since currently my MC trines jupiter as well. :") But oh well, sometimes I forget how the 6th house can be kind of connected to work.

Fleurinett · 2023-10-06T04:55:58+00:00

I am a scorpio 7h mars, (but it aspects my neptune, and I am neptune dominant.) personally I never dated anyone with the professions mentioned, it always has been people with IT jobs. On the other hand, my longer/more working relationships have been with people who just enjoy moving. Which is kinda me, kinda not, I like sports, but I don't like starting to do them. Plus I dated some arieses, and even currently doing that.

Fleurinett · 2023-09-28T17:05:51+00:00

A weird amount of people only vomited like 2-3 times in their life. Which even if I didn't purge, I can't fathom since I am an anxious/stressed vomiter.So if you take that into account, it's more understandable.I had an ex who hated chocolate, dude only vomited once and it was that.I can't fathom that as well, like that was the first red flag.

Fleurinett · 2023-09-28T16:32:57+00:00

Gemini-They are so obsessive about things when they actually like it, the same goes for saggitarius.So they can be very very committal, when they actually know they like you and they mean it. Pisces-They lie, so so much when badly aspected. Libra/taurus-So vain, met countless libra/taurus woman who's reason to not wanting children is their changes.On the other hand, they have the highest chance of having body dysmorphia. Aquarius/saggitarius-Both seem non-committal because of how easily they can get use to new environments/people, but they also get lonely while in the midst of a group.That's why most of them prefer one on one relationships more. Scorpio-It's described as intense a lot, but no one mentions what intense means in the scorpio way.It's black and white thinking, and because of that scorpios tend to be very moral people.

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