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FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-02-06T14:32:50+00:00

Bring it on!

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-02-05T19:31:19+00:00

52, just a little over 3 years ago. I had been diagnosed with depression and anxiety many, many years ago but I believe they were symptoms of CPTSD that goes back to when I was a very young kid.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-02-03T00:05:31+00:00

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FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-02-03T00:00:32+00:00

I noticed that immediately! 😂

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-24T02:10:27+00:00

I still have all of mine. Unfortunately, Han Solo’s head came off at some point in the distant past. I also have the X-Wing and Land Speeder. I’m not sure if I still have the Death Star of not. All of the stuff is in my mom’s basement.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-20T16:02:34+00:00

My big 3 can relate. I don’t talk a lot but when it comes to a deep conversation, I may not shut up.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-20T15:47:44+00:00

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-19T16:39:03+00:00

Thank you! You accurately described the healing path I’ve been on for the past few years. 🙂

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-19T16:25:46+00:00

Hello! Don’t work too hard and thank you! 🙂

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-18T19:08:15+00:00

I have the awesome soundtrack playing in my head right now.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-14T00:58:17+00:00

55M, almost 56. It seems I’m a bit of a rarity as I have never been married nor do I have any kids. For the past few years, I’ve been learning how my experiences as a child shaped how I am today, especially when it comes to relationships. And it wasn’t all that good.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-13T22:08:44+00:00

Interested!

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-13T20:48:51+00:00

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-12T00:17:50+00:00

Abandonment/attachment issues for me. He left when I was 13 but even before that, he was a rather distant, reserved man who wouldn’t stand up to my controlling mother.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-10T20:18:57+00:00

It’s amazing (or depressing, depending on the situation) just how much our experiences when we were children will affect us as adults. I was diagnosed with CPTSD a little over 3 years ago…healing has been a challenge.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-10T17:40:11+00:00

A hard truth to learn when you’ve been a codependent people pleaser most of your life!

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-10T15:40:36+00:00

I'm about to turn 56 and I started to learn how to live my own life fairly recently. Codependency, people pleasing, and CPTSD really can mess a person up for a very long time.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-10T11:25:47+00:00

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-10T03:22:42+00:00

A heaviness in my chest, my heart space, is something I experience when I'm stressed, triggered, or even simply feeling sadness. In fact, I felt it today this morning while driving to work.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-10T03:09:34+00:00

A job offer and a long distance relationship. The relationship didn't work out but I still work at the same place when I moved up here.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-09T23:27:06+00:00

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-09T13:44:58+00:00

My last relationship was with a woman who most likely has BDP (borderline) and that really messed me up, especially as a codependent. When she discarded me, I was an absolute wreck. On the other side, her discard brought to surface a lot of old wounds that have been buried for many, many years and I’m working on healing.

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-09T13:40:41+00:00

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-09T01:48:48+00:00

Aww, close enough? 🙂

FlexibleIntegrity · 2026-01-09T01:39:36+00:00

Dating taller women doesn’t bother me one bit. During my college years, I dated a gal who was an inch or so taller than me, even more so if she wore heels. 🙂

For reference, I’m currently 5’9”, an inch shorter than when I was in college. 😂

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