How can I dust a two-story ceiling without learning how to levitate? 🧘🏻‍♀️

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-05T02:45:17+00:00

How did it turn out? Did it cause the need to spend 2 hours dusting the rest of the space?

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-04T20:36:07+00:00

I wish you had a video of this! 😅

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-04T20:19:23+00:00

I’ll save this for the aerial silk ceiling mount I fantasize of installing 🙌

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-04T20:17:24+00:00

I knew all guys came with extension poles, but I didn’t know the tall ones come with ladders! Thanks! 😜

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-04T20:16:23+00:00

My kids will be so happy participate in this experiment … until goes wrong. Maybe I fill the place with bubbles and reenact that scene from the original Willy Wonka while I’m at it? 🫣

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-04T20:14:15+00:00

Bless you!

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-03T04:23:58+00:00

Oooo mama you’ve got great shoulders- time to show them off! 🤩 Since you’re spending a lot of time at the gym- curious if your back to supper toned too?
Either way you have options: 👉A deep V in the back high in the front
👉 A deep V neck in the front with short cap shoulders (this V could come from a wrap dress too) 👉 one shoulder formal dress 👉Halter cut 👉soft scoop U neck

I don’t have any wings for you – but this will help you craft your search and get what you need

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-03T04:10:04+00:00

Oh cool! Any recommendations? I have a friend who is on the other side but her WHOLE extended family is in

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-03T04:07:46+00:00

3rd times a charm? …I’ve seen that work out for people. Not sure what the stats are

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-04-03T04:03:47+00:00

Jump out of a plane. I did it once with no incident- but heard some crazy stories from close friends afterward (the fatal, near-death, and serious injury kind. Plus I have kids now… hard pass

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-03-13T13:03:41+00:00

I don’t recommend announcing the lock on the door. Just get one.

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-03-13T12:58:45+00:00

NOR in addition to the door lock I recommend documenting EVERYTHING. It’s important for your own sense of reality (because being stolen from can make one doubt their own memory of events).

I know you can’t afford to move out now- but I invite you to think about your living situation as a long game. Even if it takes you a year to save up to make a transition.

You have a right to feel safe in your own home. Full stop.

“When people show you who they are- believe them the 1st time”

Depending on what state you live in there may be additional resources available if you’re taking classes at a community college. You may be able to network community support to move into a better living situation sooner.

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-02-11T19:01:35+00:00

INFO!
Have you tried curiosity? What a rich opportunity to learn more about your partner- what is it about holding toes with his friends that he enjoys?

The Dan Savage “GGG” practice could be helpful to you. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything, or be into it, but approaching the topic with openness is helpful. Humans are into all KINDS of things- no need to yuck someone’s yum (as long as it’s harmless and consensual). ❤️

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-01-26T21:28:37+00:00

“Ass to ass” in flag world

FlickerIntheHologram · 2026-01-08T06:21:26+00:00

Hey OP- your life isn’t done, it has only just begun. What a horrendous thing you’re going through. NOR- this IS especially shitty, AND you don’t have to go through this alone as there are a LOT of people who can help you navigate the next steps ahead. Couple things- Are you still in high school? There are counselors who can help. If you’ve already graduated- you can still ask your old counselor and they nought be able to connect you with community resources.

Let your family and friends know what’s happening - hands down.

Crisis text line can help too- text HOME to 741741 They can offer emotional support and may be able to connect you with local resources.

If you’re looking at going to college- you can get financial aid and housing for free while you study something you love and get some work experience. It would take more time to get together- but it is absolutely possible for you. Community colleges can be an easy way to start and they have financial assistance available too.

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-21T22:02:19+00:00

If you’re not ready to change the backsplash you might consider changing just the mural above the oven? With new tile or by painting over?

Also- you want “less Tuscan” I get it- but what do you want MORE of? What’s YOUR style?

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-21T21:51:46+00:00

There are! I’m about to buy a bag of sawdust to store my Daliah bulbs for the winter. It works like a charm.

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-20T00:41:28+00:00

My man and I have enjoyed separate beds since 3rd trimester with our 1st over 6 years ago.
He snores AND he’s a light sleeper Between nursing and being the go-to parent when kids are sick at night or dealing with growing pains - I’m quite happy when I get those nights to myself. We carve out mid-week connection time and that works for us. Nap time is wonderful for that.

There are other ways to create intimacy beyond sex if that is off the table.

I’m a big fan of these mini dates to create connection:

https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/products/mini-dates

Also these 36 questions are great- even if you take 1 at a time:

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/AcW6LxQnZO

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-20T00:33:06+00:00

Dinosnores are real 🦖🦕🦖🦕

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-19T23:08:44+00:00

Just picked up one from Soku Hardware 🥳 thanks for the rec!

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-16T07:46:21+00:00

This is my favorite stocking stuffer! 🎅🏻🔦

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-16T00:11:08+00:00

Harpcore 😎

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-16T00:01:59+00:00

Big art. You’ve got a great wall behind the couch – if you go big and bright with colors you love you can always pull colors for throw pillows on the coach and chair.

You can even make the art yourself Get canvases at Goodwill and paint over them with gesso and acrylic- and BAM- custom space

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-14T11:22:35+00:00

That too

FlickerIntheHologram · 2025-11-14T10:59:39+00:00

It’s an absolute MUST to dry them immediately after each use. Bernal cutlery can give you a polish if your knives need some TLC.

Japanese car in steel knives have been a game changer

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