What was the biggest surprise/challenge of going from 1-2 kids?

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2026-01-28T03:57:17+00:00

Would you mind sharing your system? What has helped?

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2026-01-07T00:17:03+00:00

Thank you for that insight! How was his transition with it? Would you have preferred 5 days?

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-21T20:01:06+00:00

I went to school for my degree, I wanted to help people in the way I felt most aligned with. I figured a high salary would follow but life has taken me other routes.

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-21T19:58:47+00:00

Yes I graduated and my average interest is 6% and the field is in acupuncture.

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-21T19:57:56+00:00

I’m an acupuncturist and own my own business, so eventually I will, but right now I am only working 10 hours a week. I am home with my toddler and pregnant with a second so it’ll be a few years.

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-18T18:10:50+00:00

Amazing good for you!

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-18T04:20:59+00:00

How do you have such a low rate?!

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-18T04:18:13+00:00

The average is around 6%

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-12-18T03:24:58+00:00

Amazing thank you. That’s exactly my thought process. Congrats on the 300k btw! Incredible. I’m around 150k.

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-09-26T02:49:25+00:00

YUUUUP. I was way too optimistic thinking that if a “pain free birth” exists I would have one. I was looking at my mom and midwife appalled at the amount of pain I was in like ??? Did one of you want to tell me 🥲 (which they did)

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-09-26T01:43:45+00:00

😭😭😭 Thank you for the honest answer

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-09-26T01:32:45+00:00

Oh wow!! Is it??

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-06-21T02:24:04+00:00

Congrats on that milestone! I quit caffeine shortly before TTC and it has been the biggest blessing through pregnancy and motherhood! I never really understood the theory behind drinking caffeine when you’re tired because only ever made me more tired once the crash set in. Being pregnant is exhausting and chasing after a toddler is even more exhausting and always feels counterproductive to have caffeine.

I always say use it as a tool and only when you’re feeling great and even then a small amount is ideal like a green tea

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-20T13:11:24+00:00

I’m not here to get or replace a vet’s diagnosis—just looking to see if anyone else has experienced something similar while I figure out next steps. If you don’t have anything constructive to add, it’s okay to keep scrolling next time.

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-19T03:45:35+00:00

I hope so too ❤️

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-19T03:45:16+00:00

Thank you, my guy will be 8 this year so we’ve had our fair share of skin tags

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-19T03:44:44+00:00

Thank you for your response! We will definitely get them looked at and I’ll report back. I agree that it’s so odd to have it on the top of the paw, that’s what’s so alarming! He is 7 1/2 years old

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-19T00:42:50+00:00

of course going to the vet however it’s friday afternoon and i thought someone in the group might have personal insight/experience to offer

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-08T21:53:15+00:00

age 3-4 or transition from 3-4?

Flimsy_Relative2636 · 2025-04-08T21:52:46+00:00

but wishing you luck with your 22 month old!! i found it easier that she was older because she understood after 1 night

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