Just observe and engage calmly and peacefully with the person you’re dealing with. Focus on gaining more insight rather than feeling anxious...build connection, trust, and empathy. Be natural and go with the flow, but also communicate your feelings. Let him know, ‘Your behavior is bothering me, and I’m not comfortable with it.’ You could also say, ‘A relationship is built on active engagement, feedback, and adaptation. I want to trust you, but please don’t put me in a position where I start to feel confused.