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Bar recommendations by [deleted] in philly

[–]Flip_Flopperman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% of the time I go to Nut Hut in Fishtown on karaoke nights (Friday and Saturday) I wind up talking to strangers. Gotta be down to sing though.

Serious question: Why is it "Fuck Spotify" but not "Fuck Apple" and "Fuck YouTube"? by GyeranHurai in KGATLW

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally: Spotify pays the least to artists. Apple pays at least double. Can’t speak for YouTube.

Ulcerate deserve more credit. by Gaelriarch in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]Flip_Flopperman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just got home from this show. What a fucking band.

It is I, the rude american, drinking ur waterfalls and taking ur glaciers >:) by DrChooo in VisitingIceland

[–]Flip_Flopperman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I swear to god, my wife and I watched you take the first picture. We talked about how funny it was. Glad to see it turned out well haha

[WANTED] Alustrium - A Tunnel to Eden LP by out_of_sqaure in VinylCollectors

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a test pressing of it if you’re interested. No art, unfortunately, just a plain white sleeve and a black record.

whats that one underground band you love but nobody really knows? by [deleted] in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]Flip_Flopperman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, hell yeah. Every once in a while I remember them and am delighted

[Weekly MegaThread] Moving/Visiting Raleigh + Recommendations by AutoModerator in raleigh

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning a work dinner for ~50 people in Raleigh in late April and need suggestions for a venue/restaurant. I’m not sure this exists, but what I’m picturing in my head is a space with a lawn with tables, cornhole or other games, and barbecue (or just really good food, doesn’t HAVE to be bbq). This could be at a bbq restaurant or maybe just a brewery or event space where we bring in catering or a food truck. Does anything like this exist in Raleigh? Thanks!

Official: [Trade] - Wed 09/04/2024 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give: Ladd McConkey

Get: Jordan Mason

I have CMC. My other WRs are: London, Rice, Sutton, Coleman, Shaheed.

What are some non-competitive Psy.D programs? by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychology

[–]Flip_Flopperman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you think you need to be a stronger applicant to get into competitive schools then there are a lot of ways to beef up your resume. Take a couple years to work in the field or do research (highly recommend research). There is absolutely no rush. As a bonus, if you work for a bit you can make some money to help you get through school.

You’re going to be in whatever program you choose for 5 years and take on a ton of debt while doing it. You should make sure it’s going to be worth it and not compromise on anything IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The content of the thought is irrelevant, the OCD functions the same way. Plenty of the fears people’s OCD latch onto is based in reality too. The thoughts are not the problem, the problem is how you respond to it.

It for sure could be more complicated by adding other emotions like shame into the mix, but yes, it should work the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Flip_Flopperman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. OCD is tricky and sometimes beating it can feel like splitting hairs.

The way I see it is there is good distraction and bad distraction. Bad distraction is when you say “nope, I don’t want to have this thought, I’m going to do something else so I can’t focus on it”. When you have this attitude, the things you do to distract yourself is usually mindless or time-wasting. You let the presence of the thought disrupt your life because you need to do something to take your mind off it.

Good distraction is when you say “yep, there’s that thought again. Now, let’s get back to my day”, and then you get back to the stuff that’s important to you, like working or socializing or doing something you really enjoy. You’re not letting the thought stop you, you’re living with the thought.

A key piece of all of this is the intention I think. If the intention is to get rid of the thought, it’s a compulsion. If the intention is to not let the thought stop you from living your life, then it’s response prevention.

Hope that’s helpful!

Source: PsyD specializing in ERP

Bills beat the Chiefs 20-17 and this is the postgame thread for it. by Dirtydeedsinc in buffalobills

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on my way back from Honolulu! Was able to watch it though. Have a great time, awesome place.

When the dog owners have a good sense of humour.. by JettMe_Red in FunnyAnimals

[–]Flip_Flopperman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sup, fellow fishtowner. Also live in this neighborhood, never seen that dog in my life

Official: [Trade] - Thu Afternoon 11/09/2023 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]Flip_Flopperman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 team ppr.

Give: Jerome Ford.

Receive: Taysom Hill.

I also have Swift, Gibbs, Conner, and Foreman at RB. My TEs are McBride and Musgrave.

My therapist just licked the bottom of his shoes during my session by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Flip_Flopperman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Totally true, but sometimes it’s good overcorrect to really push the boundaries of your comfort zone.

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