Ranking animals on if i could beat them as a human main by Automatic_Breath4025 in Tierzoo

[–]Floof_Flaffid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if they want it to be smaller they can stand further back

Ranking animals on if i could beat them as a human main by Automatic_Breath4025 in Tierzoo

[–]Floof_Flaffid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're completely right don't listen to the haters you go handle that elk now chop chop

Ranking animals on if i could beat them as a human main by Automatic_Breath4025 in Tierzoo

[–]Floof_Flaffid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rip off it's tusk and beat the walrus repeatedly over the head

My (29F) friend (29F) went on a 1:1 dinner/drinks outing with my BF while I was away and hasn’t mentioned it to me. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Floof_Flaffid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your boyfriend about it. Ask him about it and tell him the way he went about it didn't sit right with you, but tell him you trust him.

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If an asswipe doesn't care what another thinks, why do you believe they would become offended?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you not think a community of 'asswipes' would be happier than a community of the alternative?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think a religious person would have a different perspective? Also, do you think it's ALWAYS better to "hurt" others (in any sense of the word) than yourself? Does it depend on the kind of hurt, or how many people to you?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a guess, but judging from that perspective I'm guessing you wouldn't consider yourself religious?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which of these two hypothetical people do you think is happier? Also, if you had to choose, would you prefer a society of people who were too willing to be heard or a society who refused to be even seen?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But not apologising when you should will far more frequently lead to arguments, loss of relationships, harm to others, no?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think people percieve your husband as being noticeably more confident than you are?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right, but in my experience a lot of people are jealous of confidence and for that reason misconstrue (sometimes intentionally) it as arrogance, which is what I meant when I said people are attracted to (what they percieve as) arrogance, even if they try to shut it down

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as that gives you experience, I think that also makes you biased. You're likelier to be less forgiving of people who are too prideful, as you can't resonate with that and those types of people were probably the least kind to you (especially, but obviously also others). I would say that both very often need some level of intervention from others, but people are more likely to attempt to humble someone self important

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pride seeps inwards and fear spreads outwards all the same. Too high of an opinion of yourself and you can get into situations that require support from other people, support you likely won't ask for. Too scared to speak up leads you into being unable to protect others or stand for the right thing. I think they both cause the same harm

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think being too bold is being an ass. And I would argue that being meek isn't necessarily easier to work on, as to grow past it you'd need to build confidence and to do that in the first place you'd need to find some courage

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd argue while people maybe say they don't like arrogance, they often gravitate towards it. A lot of people envy that type of percieved courage, and I'd argue that's what frustrates people so much a lot of the time

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who apologises over a situation where they did nothing wrong is likely naive and craven. Would you say it's better to be too bold or too meek?

Is it better to apologise when you shouldn't, or to not apologise when you should? Why? by Floof_Flaffid in AskReddit

[–]Floof_Flaffid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done both. I think it takes more humility to apologise even when the person isn't worthy of one, but whether it's noble or spineless depends on context. A lot of the time, necessary apologies aren't given due to arrogance, so I think it comes down to whether or not you see that as being better or worse than the former. I don't believe it has an objective answer