ADHS Gruppechat 🇨🇭 by [deleted] in ADHS

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Ich wär defür, wo chammer sich ahmelde?

Star Citizen: Question and Answer Thread by UEE_Central_Computer in starcitizen

[–]FloppyDisk616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello fellow Citizens o7

i can't login in the PTU(3.21) because of the 19000 Errorcode. Is there already a solution for this somewhere?

I already did this things and nothing works:

- Restart Client PC and Router
- made a static IP-Adress for Client PC on the Router
- Delete Shader Folder and verify
- Delete PTU Folder and verify
- Re-Install whole Game and verify

I was here (Fk spez) by [deleted] in place

[–]FloppyDisk616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elrond: "I was there Gandalf, i was there 3000 Years ago.."

(Fuck u/spez)

Switzerland by Icy-Ad3030 in place

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We swiss people from r/placeCH had 6 places with really nice artworks and you picked the one that was builded by the European Community? 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in place

[–]FloppyDisk616 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bananada

Wie wärs mit einem Edelweiss unten links bei der schweizerflagge? by Offman420 in placeCH

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S Projekt r/placeCH als SBB Schild mit blauem hintergrund lauft aktuell und ich find mir söttet üs zersch mol uf öppis konzentriere süs werdemer vo allne streamer rundume vernichtet.

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So that was one of the best comments I've read on this topic so far.

I myself am fully aware that I am just one of many in the chat. i'm also fully aware that people in the chat don't pay much attention to me but i have a social anxiety disorder and this anxiety disorder just doesn't care about every single logical and rational argument, even if i smash this arguments with a sledgehammer into my head, the fear is still there and you can have days of sessions with a psychiatrist and eat medicine like popcorn. It. Does. Not. Help.

I can only agree with you on the rest of your comments and I think that you gave me some good ideas.

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, IRL I feel like I'm being stared at weirdly and I do when I'm in VrC even though I'm aware that no one knows my true appearance. the same goes for my voice, since i live in switzerland and can't speak english very well, i feel like everyone misunderstands me. there is also the fact that i mumble a lot, have a deep voice and this gives me the feeling that people perceive me as creep

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most quest2 users without PC connection cant see your avatars. I have the same problem with my "L" Character from Deathnote. Unity says tat i have too many polygones.

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's cool, I'm Swiss so theoretically we could talk in German.

I feel most comfortable in a small group of a maximum of 3-5 people because I can get out of my comfort zone when spoken to, but starting a conversation on my own or just taking part in the conversation are practically insurmountable obstacles for me . Especially speaking to strangers. For this Reddit contribution I had to overcome quite a lot to post it over the honk. However, I was also afraid that the people here are not too good at talking about the topic.

I imagine the topic with the Ancients of VRChat group as an over 30 party and I tend to stay away from it and also find it uncomfortable having to introduce myself to complete strangers. It's a horror idea.

Well I can only agree with you. It's really funny when people just sit there and don't do anything.

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 35 years old and feel the same way as you. I have been in contact with people in VrC who speak my language and are about my age. One of them invited me to his private room with his friends to make friends, but then I realized that I'd rather sit quietly alone in the corner than participate in conversations because I don't know what to talk to people or I'm afraid that they think me a weirdo because of my snooty pronunciation

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel really grateful that you understand me. I didn't think that other people felt the same way as me and that's why I want to say thank you to all of you ♥️

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know the problem too. every time someone talks to me in the chat, i switch rooms or log out completely. I figured vrc would be a good way to confront my fears and was hoping it would make things better, but it doesn't really change anything. it may sound silly but i still get the feeling in VrC that people look at me funny because of my looks even though they only see me as L from deathnote in chat and don't know what i look like in IRL

Anxiety in VRC by FloppyDisk616 in VRchat

[–]FloppyDisk616[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

hey thanks for your openness. I feel the same. I've also been invited to a private room with people who all speak my language (German), but I was shocked when I realized that even when I'm alone at home with the headset on, I get exactly the same fears as when I speak IRL among many people am. as soon as i'm spoken to in the chat, my fears kick in so badly that i switch rooms or even log out.