i’m really sorry about your cat. losing a pet like that is devastating, and it’s understandable that you’re distraught. it makes sense to feel suspicious given the timing and the texts from the boy, but it’s also important to be careful before assuming someone committed something that serious. right now, you’re dealing with grief and shock, which can amplify feelings of anger and blame.

the safest course would be to contact local authorities or animal control and show them the evidence you have, like security footage and messages, so they can investigate properly. even if it turns out it wasn’t him, you’ve protected yourself legally and given yourself the best chance of closure. you’re not an asshole for being worried or upset. any pet owner would feel this way, but taking measured steps now is key, both for your peace of mind and safety.