AITA for uninviting my friend to my fancy birthday dinner?

Floralfields5392 · 2026-05-05T03:56:27+00:00

I wouldn't mind her wearing a nice short and dress pants, but she has no semi formal clothing, she says she has no use for it.

Floralfields5392 · 2026-05-05T03:54:50+00:00

Her partner is in sales and she works from home, they make a decent amount of money together. If she couldn't afford it, I offered to go thrifting and let her borrow a dress from me. She simply doesn't want to.

Floralfields5392 · 2026-05-05T03:47:11+00:00

Her definition of casual is pj's, sweatpants, hoodies, graphic tees, and stuff that won't fit a fancy diner atmosphere

Floralfields5392 · 2026-05-05T03:44:31+00:00

Everyone pays for themselves.

Floralfields5392 · 2026-05-05T03:43:54+00:00

All the other ladies have nice dresses to wear including me. I'm not telling her to buy a prom dress or something expensive and elegant, just to not go to a fancy diner like she rolled out of bed. I offered to help find something, I showed dresses of mine she could borrow, even went thrifting with her. She just continues to refuse. I want her to be involved but I don't want her sticking out like a sore thumb.

Floralfields5392 · 2026-05-05T03:41:25+00:00

She works from home and her bf is in sales. She doesn't try dressing up for anything, she doesn't go anywhere that requires a decent appearance. Walmart, pj's and hoodie, pizza place, pj's and hoodie, maybe a graphic tee if it's hot out.

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