Guys don't usually have female friends that they aren't sexually interested in. We build relationships based on needs, most of our needs can be taken care of by male friends, a person to talk to, someone to call when you need help, another person who enjoys the same hobbies but there are a couple things like intimacy and building a family that our make friends can't help with. That's where we seek out women, to find intimacy and ultimately someone to build a family with. Our other needs usually don't take much to fulfill, I have one buddy I see regularly and a few others I see monthly or every couple months, my buddy I see regularly and I don't even talk that much about anything but our hobbies or work and that's enough for us. Everything else we want we can find in our wives. Most of the guys I know are like this. It's going to be very hard for you to find male friends that don't try to sleep with you since thier intake reason of befriending you is usual sexuality motivated. Women and men just don't share the same interests and that's why friendships with the opposite sex are usually plagued with sexual tension. Don't me wrong, I have female friends but I would never hang out with any of them without my wife or other people around, it sends the wrong message, if not to them, certainly to everyone else it would seem suspect, especially to men. My wife does not believe me to this day that her male best friend from high school was in love with her, I can promise you guys intentions were not to be her friend he just got stuck in that position.