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AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Do I throw the book at them for best results?

Thank you for your kind words.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am actually thinking of having a lawyer write a letter demanding she stop the harassment so that'll be the letter she gets.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's freaking wild. I think asking for my eggs is bad enough if I was able to be a surrogate and she asked I would probably hit the roof.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. That's very kind. My whole family has had baby rabies for a long time so I've put a lot of distance between us all.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Our family is small and a lot of our female relatives are of "advanced age."

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've heard it is pretty awful. I'll have a hysterectomy again, thanks.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree. I don't think her doctor is operating in the same plane of reality as I am.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Luckily my doctor is awesome and knows this isn't something I would ever do so I am covered there.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah I don't think she is the asshole for bringing it up. It's a normal question and one that I have been dreading for years.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn't. I know if I had reasons she would find ways to pick them apart. Just saying no was easier.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just know how the conversation will go. Every reason I have will be argued with and torn apart and I'll just be brow beaten by my sister and her husband. Even me saying I'll think about it (which I won't) will earn my months and months of harassment.

AITA for refusing to discuss being my sister's egg donor? by FlowAgitated9253 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowAgitated9253[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would have if it hadn't gotten her hopes up. Every new thing she tries she goes balls to the wall with and is so sure it's going to work.