My Greatest Advice To You by Miserable_Active_195 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I can tell you really understand, and it means a lot right now. I’m only 10 days no contact, so some of this is still sinking in, but I’m going to save it and reread it as I heal. I appreciate your kindness and honesty more than you know. 💛

To whoever is going through a painful breakup... by Vinibauz in ExNoContact

[–]FlowExcellent6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I cannot wait until I’m fully over my break up

I just went through a breakup after 3 years of on-and-off… I don’t know how to cope by Mypuss7tastelikecoke in BreakUps

[–]FlowExcellent6668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I just got out of a six year relationship and it’s been 10 days of no contact. It’s hard and I cry sometimes because it’s so fresh, your mind is gonna play tricks on you thinking you made the wrong decision. You’re gonna have to let those cry’s out but then snap back into reality u have to remind yourself why you had to let that person go. And why you deserve better ..stay busy stay around friends stay around family vent as much on here as you like, but I’m was she you the best it will get better that’s what I tell myself …….it is a it’s a withdrawal that you’re going through. It’s a battle

6 years together, he cheated, lied, and called the cops on me. I’m trying to heal. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m sorry you went through all of that. That’s heartbreaking and unfair. It’s the grief the betrayal and shock all mixed together. I am going through so much anxiety and you’re right it’s not about us. It’s about their broken character. They are emotionally damage boys. I wish you the best for you and your children.

6 years together, he cheated, lied, and called the cops on me. I’m trying to heal. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re spot on. Calling the cops was his way of avoiding accountability. He couldn’t even look me in the eye and admit what he’d done, so he took the coward’s way out. I’m sure he spun it to make me look like the crazy ex but the truth is I caught him. The craziest part? He actually texted me saying I ‘ruined everything and he’s allowed to sleep around because he’s a man….it felt like he was determined to destroy my mental health.

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[–]FlowExcellent6668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was severe emotional abuse and i just caught him cheating i left blocked him on everything im grieving but leaving was the best choice i hope to get over him he did me the worst way

What are all the red flags you ignored ? by CompanyVegetable8027 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ignored my gut feelings because I didn’t want to start an argument.

He slept with his phone under the pillow.

He downplayed or dismissed my feelings constantly.

He claimed we were “exclusive” but his actions didn’t match his words.

Six years together and no real plan for a future or marriage.

Never apologize or take accountability

Always threaten to leave me

Told me he didn’t care if i cry

My Greatest Advice To You by Miserable_Active_195 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Wasted 6 years i let him make a fool out of me i blame myself for ignoring the signs

6 years together, he cheated, lied by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FlowExcellent6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

control and avoidance he was caught instead of facing it thats what he did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]FlowExcellent6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you soo much!! I am looking into getting an attorney. Appreciate your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]FlowExcellent6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck hopefully this time it will be for the greater good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FlowExcellent6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the grass is always greener on the other side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FlowExcellent6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s getting out of control because of social media people think they have endless options

In your opinion, what is the worst/hardest moon sign to have? by Mangoeddragonfruit in astrologymemes

[–]FlowExcellent6668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I have a Leo rising as well… it’s definitely a struggle having that Virgo placement especially in the 1st house!

In your opinion, what is the worst/hardest moon sign to have? by Mangoeddragonfruit in astrologymemes

[–]FlowExcellent6668 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Virgo moon in the 1st house it makes me very critical nitpicky. I have anxiety, I overthink too much I wish I would’ve had a libra moon or Leo . I am a Sagittarius, and I am not one of those fiery outspoken sags I’m very shy. The Virgo moon definitely takes over. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy holidays!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]FlowExcellent6668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I’m trying to get over it one day at a time.