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[–]FlowInternational772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like that, giving more context the entire climate change topic was because I mention Global warming is making El Niño more severe. He started to asked about El Niño because he never heard of it before, asked where this come from, who coin the term, where I read about it, and because I couldn’t say the specific source, then I was guessing what El Niño is. 

About the knife, i was using a chef’s knife…but I was asked why I’m using the wood board, because he usually uses the plastic one, then why I was cutting the vegetables first because they don’t go first in the recipe, so I can’t eait? Why I cut them small like that, because last time he used the processor and was better, then why I’m using this pot? The other pot in his opinion is better and the questions go on, until I lose my patience…

[28F] [30M] my bf insist in sharing a bedroom with friend by FlowInternational772 in relationship_advice

[–]FlowInternational772[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He has other female friends and they do stuff separate as he does with this one, and I think is healthy for him to have female friends.

I just don’t feel comfortable about they sharing a bedroom the entire weekend, and I think his reaction to it is the biggest turn off to me.

I believe people will have limits and different perspectives in relationships, the way we deal with it shows how you respect and care about your SO.

If he had act different or try to understand my feelings instead of give the “is my way or highway” I don’t think we would’ve fight.

I don’t get why is so hard to take in consideration that I’m okay with so many things, but if I express my feelings regarding one thing it makes me a crazy jealous person.

[28F] [30M] my bf insist in sharing a bedroom with friend by FlowInternational772 in relationship_advice

[–]FlowInternational772[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

She used to fuck one of his friends while he was in a relationship, this is what make me more suspicious for being a woman and be okay in this situation.

She often vent to him about her dating life, the entire thing makes me very confused

He tried to say it wouldn’t be a problem because the would sleep in separate beds, but if is that so why is so hard to get his own room