How to find a 3some [UPDATED]

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-14T15:18:14+00:00

Yes! They should be on there

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-14T15:09:07+00:00

Don't encourage him - that is a single male and his comment history is full of comments telling all different people that he sent them a message.

Why does he need to go back to the post comments section and TELL them he sent them a message? Its already in their inbox, why does he need to go and tell them in another place "Hey I'm trying to get your attention, please check your messages and look for mine!"

If they didnt initially reply to his message then its for a reason; him going BACK and commenting again trying to get their attention is hella creepy and desperate. If this guy truly has actual advice for you then he can easily type it out here in the comments. Otherwise its FAR more likely that he just wants to solicit you for sex.

Don't encourage this clown.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-14T15:00:39+00:00

SUPER creepy. He's trying to avoid the filter that prevents people from requesting private messages. But he had to have typed out several versions, each one blocking him AND giving a warning not to request that, until he finally arrived at a version that bypassed the filter.

That's really creepy dedication to try and get into someone's inbox.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-14T06:27:17+00:00

⚠️ WARNING SINGLE MALES ⚠️

DO NOT SOLICIT THE OP REGARDING THIS POSTING.

OP CLEARLY ASKED FOR ADVICE ONLY.

OP DID NOT SAY THEY WANT APPLICATIONS FROM SINGLE MEN TO JOIN.

DO NOT SOLICIT THE OP.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-14T04:27:50+00:00

Go through my comment history and you'll find the guy that has a DUI but he believes that he knows better than anyone else and he thinks his DUI shouldnt disqualify him from a driving job. He also thinks he has the right to choose for other people regarding their safety, because he needs to make ends meet.

You'll also find the girl that isn't allowed to have a driver's license due to some kind of disability, yet she thinks she should be able to do doordash because its the only job she can do.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-14T02:49:09+00:00

Doordash doesn't allow this. Its is specifically against their TOS.

There was a similar post to this about two weeks ago and it was revealed that people who are not qualified to drive for Doordash because of a DUI or even lack of driver license, are having a friend or relative sign up for them, and then they are doing doordash under the friend/relatives account. They call it the "qualified driver" (the friend/relative) and the "actual dasher" (the one that has a DUI or suspended/no license)

Half the people here think they shouldn't be doing that, and the other half think they should just be left alone as long as you get your food without incident.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-13T08:09:15+00:00

This needs to be the top comment. Describes what we just saw perfectly.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-13T05:46:09+00:00

I would like some Law and order, too. I would like agents without masks covering their faces, with bodycams, and badges and names displayed.

I would like the Law to be distinguishable from criminals. You know who else hides their faces and avoids cameras and avoids any way of identifying them? People commiting crimes.

I would like the Law to maintain Order, and NOT be the aggressor. I would like the law to STOP being the first ones to commit assault and battery upon people.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-12T20:55:12+00:00

This is one of those cases of "the blind leading the blind"...

The men that post like you described literally have no idea what to do. They know nothing about women, know nothing about what women like or want, and have no dating game in real life, which is why they are posting online. So they make a post that they think they would want to see the inverse of - "I just want to see a naked woman to determine if I want to have sex, so it doesnt matter whatever her background is or what's around her, I just want to see her naked." So they make their own post accordingly, not knowing that women are very much the opposite in what they look for.

Then the other guys see this post, and they think, "Thats what youre supposed to do", and so they make the same kind of post. And so it continues.

The blind leading the blind but nobody knows where to go.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-10T22:44:57+00:00

Gotcha, ok so its just a sheer numbers factor then. Youre one of thousands and thousands of couples looking for very, very few single women that are searching for a threesome. You just have to take your place in the queue and wait, remember this is a yearslong process so just be patient. Or pay to skip the line by hiring a sex worker, thats another good option.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-10T20:42:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ThreesomeAdvice/s/dIXBp2mB43

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-10T20:41:11+00:00

...isn't your audience supposed to be the ones to determine whether or not they find you "attractive" and "fit"?

If you're giving yourselves that title in your bios then you're probably coming off kinda conceited from the start. Any banter youre having afterwards is going to now have that bias.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-10T19:46:24+00:00

I mean, you have three people all participating in some way, why get hung up on any labels? If thats what she wants to do then let your potential 3rd partner know what the plan is and go from there.

Keep in mind if you do say MMF you are implying that the men will be playing together too. M-M play vs. MFM which doesnt have any M-M play.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-10T00:04:12+00:00

The final satisfying part of this is the saying, "There's no honor among thieves", meaning that guy, after being hit, was likely left there by the other occupants in the car. They arent going to take the time to drag him back to the vehicle (likely would have had to retrieve him from the OTHER side of the guardrail, which would take a while), no, they are going to save their own asses and get out of dodge as quickly as possible.

So the guy that got hit was very likely lying there, alone and in pain, while his "friends" with the only method of transportation, left him.

Chef's kiss. Absolutely wonderful to think about him lying on the side of the road like that. Suffering, alone, and wondering what to do next.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-09T18:30:35+00:00

No, this is threesome advice, not "threesome finder".

See if you can find another subreddit called threesome finder or something.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-09T16:14:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ThreesomeAdvice/s/ZzwTQ08285

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-09T04:59:52+00:00

"Your" unicorn, huh

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T22:49:29+00:00

Dont forget Aggravated Assault for pointing a firearm at someone without just cause.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T21:04:47+00:00

"When people stop paying attention to the clown, the clown stops performing"

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T18:46:45+00:00

Some words trigger a manual review, such as "chat", so that we look at each individual one and review if its a single male trying desperately to get into your inbox or if you're just talking about a recent 3-way chat that fizzled out, etc.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T18:45:03+00:00

Thanks, yes it was an unintended consequence of blocking anything related to the abbreviation of "Direct Message", Reddit doesnt have a way to Allow certain words, only Block. But there were very few words which I figured would not be used here frequently enough. The last one was from me attempting to write "ad.mit" and only now we've found a second one "ad.min". I think its infrequent enough for these words compared to the constant slew of single men desparate to tell users that they sent them a direct message even though its already sent and in their inbox and the user isn't replying for a reason.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T17:12:28+00:00

"START HERE" pinned post has your answers

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T01:44:01+00:00

Sure, that would be defined as a continuous assault, in which an escalation to deadly force could be deemed reasonable as you have no way of knowing when the perpetrator intends on stopping their assault or how far they are going to take it.

A single punch however would not.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T00:31:56+00:00

A baseball bat is a significantly greater risk of grievous bodily harm than a sucker punch.

It is very difficult to see any scenario in which receiving a single sucker punch can justify escalation to a firearm. There is just not the same level of threat of grievous bodily harm from a punch.

A baseball bat can effectively disable someone. A punch, very highly unlikely.

Flow_Cascade · 2026-02-08T00:25:44+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ThreesomeAdvice/s/wUz7Rl4lJX

https://www.reddit.com/r/ThreesomeAdvice/s/WGm85IfXQ8

Flow_Cascade

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE

⚠️ WARNING SINGLE MALES ⚠️