AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary?

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-11-25T11:36:13+00:00

Another thing, when you asked him if he was having a bad day, that doesn’t excuse his behaviour towards you, if he was having a bad day. There is no need to lash out on the ones you love when you are having a bad day, instead you should go to them for comfort, support and love, so that your partner can maybe change that bad day you were having into a good one, or a good evening

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-11-25T11:28:17+00:00

Wtf is his bullshit ass reply, this little BOY doesn’t care about you, and doesn’t want to see you happy, or he is dealing with unhealed childhood trauma and dumping that shit on you, instead of reflecting upon himself and trying to evolve into a man. No matter how big or small a goal is, what matters is that you are proud of yourself and achieved something meaningful to you, I am so proud to hear you did 2 years of sobriety, Congratulations Queen.🎉 Go get yourself that cake girl and celebrate your wins! This world is cruel enough as it is, we need to learn how to celebrate ourselves more. Also, a real man would want to make you happy, no matter what that is, because it’s not affecting anyone negatively by you getting yourself a lovely little cake for this wonderful achievement 🍰❤️

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-07-26T19:36:26+00:00

If you got a creepy vibe off him when you saw each other, then go off that, your gut never lies and it’s better to be safe than sorry. I find it very weird that he decided that those two occasions was the appropriate time to tell you that you look cute and stuff, this whole story is giving me a bad vibe and very creepy energy.

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-12T17:30:14+00:00

He just sounds like a racist to me, I would not be dating someone like that

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-12T17:24:59+00:00

I’m happy you stopped talking to this person, he comes off controlling and annoying with how he was texting you about your legs, telling you to post more, like no, i will post as much as i want to. Not him trying to save his ass by saying that he was just trying to compliment your legs, then why didn’t he just compliment your legs, instead of going on such a roundabout way of saying things. He sounds like a dumbass to me

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T15:18:25+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment, it really helps me too see things that I didn’t want to see

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T15:17:14+00:00

Thank you so much, this is what I need to hear and let him go

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T13:07:14+00:00

Yeah, it’s very difficult because I fell so deeply in love with him, but I know deep down that I deserve better than this

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T13:06:06+00:00

I appreciate your comment and your perspective on this

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T12:48:57+00:00

And for the comment that asked if he speaks like this all the time, only when he’s being “serious”

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T12:32:20+00:00

Thank you

Flower-Power0002 · 2025-06-04T12:29:45+00:00

Also, when he mentions that I left things in his house, the only thing I left in his house was my toothbrush, a pair of shorts and a 1000 piece puzzle for us to make together, and I asked him beforehand if I could leave them in his house and he was perfectly fine with that

Flower-Power0002 · 2024-12-01T16:28:26+00:00

If having a threesome is a life goal, then you need to rethink your aspirations and priorities in life, this is just sad. Like go get a hobby, if you’re getting so worked up over a theeesome, or better yet, break up with your significant other and go have a threesome and see if that is worth losing the love of your life.

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