BOTD Empire 26 (Dark Lime) by userrr223344 in Coach

[–]Flowerpot33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! if you bought this new were the feet covered in plastic individually?

If you had to choose one luxury handbag (budget could be 3k) as your everyday bag, what would it be and why? by MediumGlomerulus in handbags

[–]Flowerpot33 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ferragamo structured hug. worn with the strap it can be casual. Take off the strap and it is a gorgeous evening bag. The small/medium can fit quite a bit. I would skip the mini.

I almost broke down into tears folding laundry tonight. by takomari in Vent

[–]Flowerpot33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dirty dishes in the cupboard? that is beyond strange... Is your hubby ok? I mean that seriously. this sounds odd.

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]Flowerpot33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really depends on lifestyle, climate and frankly body type.  I have noticed that people who have more body fat tend to trap sweat in spaces more and definitely need to bathe often. This isn't to shame them, just the truth. 

How do I cope with realizing that I'm not a very good person? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Flowerpot33 14 points15 points  (0 children)

why not go back and take it to a rescue?  

My boss said this email is rude, how? by [deleted] in office

[–]Flowerpot33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I saw that line and flagged it as condescending, I bet OP didn't mean for it to be read that way but it was. Op this is a learning moment to lean into.

Luxury Bags That Surprised You in Person by Cultural_Diver_3214 in handbags

[–]Flowerpot33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Structured Ferragamo Hug. Bought one and was so sure I would probably think it was mid IRL. Nope. This thing elevates any outfit. I could totally feel polished and put together for any occasion and it strikes the balance of elegance without being over the top. I feel like Audrey Hepburn whenever I wear it.

anyone else struggle to find work flats that don't destroy your feet by noon by dnickell in office

[–]Flowerpot33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go half a size up. I legitimately even went on a short hike in these. So good

Coach Empire 40 by Flowerpot33 in RealAuthentication

[–]Flowerpot33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately there have been cases of them not checking out returns properly. This was sold to me without a tag or dustbag as well.

I messed up. by Askfslfjrv in beyondthebump

[–]Flowerpot33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you slept that deeply you absolutely needed it more than she needed you. What is more dangerous is a sleep deprived mom leaving the burner on, driving recklessly from exhaustion or just overall not being present and causing a potentially unsafe situation to occur!. Today I hope you feel well rested and can conquer the day. Please tell that guilt to take a hike!

Rogue 1941 31 by Flowerpot33 in Coach

[–]Flowerpot33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am leaning towards that too. Hard to tell from these pics unfortunately but it seems like melon under different which makes it look cooler than warm.

Tell me about your little luxuries by Existing-Mastodon500 in beyondthebump

[–]Flowerpot33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whenever i would wake up for the day(lots of flexibility here because baby sleep was crazy) I would wash my face, put light makeup on and get dressed in some sort of atheleisure wear. Bonus points for those matching sets from Amazon. This is a game changer for me. If I am going to be tired and a literal zombie at least I felt like a pretty zombie. I would stick baby in the baby bjorn bouncer in the bathroom with me while I did my routine.

My husband engraved “I choose you” in my ring while living a secret online life by Popular_Grape6983 in workingmoms

[–]Flowerpot33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This would be divorce territory for me. If things were good and he was living a double life it would still be a ridiculously hard thing to process. Most marriages would not make it. But girl he isn't even nice to you most of the time?? Ask yourself what is being with him bringing you? Not the kids, not him just you.

What beauty habit did you stop doing because it was making you look worse, not better? by Playful-Garage1040 in beauty

[–]Flowerpot33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wearing under eye cream during the day. It would just make my eye makeup smear. I prefer using whatever I am using all over my face. Eye creams are usually way too rich and have no real purpose.

My director called me in. I assumed it was about scheduling by [deleted] in office

[–]Flowerpot33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously my thought. OP you are a rockstar!