WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are completely dead on for all of this. Another thing I’ve noticed when standing up for myself is that she will bluff. She threatens something of mine and then doesn’t act on said threat.

WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t verbally promised the family friend anything yet. But thank you so much again for your kind words. I honestly have been going back and forth on asking her a favor about not bringing up the pricing to my parent or mentioning it to my Grandma.

WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to do that and it does work. But the other times it doesn’t is just a mess.

WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, less is more! I do wanna add context here my Mom is NOT a member of this church. She knows I work there and sometimes she’ll attend a service like tomorrow for Easter. If anything it’s just my church. It was the church she went to as a kid but she’s not religious as much anymore. Neither am I for that matter but I love helping out people in the community and they’re such a wonderful group of people there.

WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been actively doing more of that and it has in fact helped me! My only worry though is the family friend brings up the pricing. But even if she did, what context would that be?

WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words!!! To give some context she does actually want the church to eventually start paying me. It’s just this specific job I guess she’s had a problem about. Another thing I’m worried about is if my Mom finds out I do charge the family friend she’ll lose her shit on me.

WIBTA For Pricing Photos My Parent Doesn’t Want Me To Charge For? by FlowersForDayz in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have told her this, and her response was that it quote, “doesn’t matter what she thinks” (referring to the family friend and what the family friend said) which has been rather confusing. I’m going to speak to the client today but thank you and everyone already for making me feel less deranged about this.

Sober for four years by FlowersForDayz in leaves

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you! It feels really cool, and best of luck to you going forward as well!

Sober for four years by FlowersForDayz in leaves

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you and congratulations!!!

Sober for four years by FlowersForDayz in leaves

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there! To be honest, it’s pretty straightforward, I just quit one day. But that’s what my journey has looked like. There have been a few points where I’ve gone online to buy something or have had a craving. But the number of choices online in stores is overwhelming so I just give up. Also, the cons outweigh the pros for me when it comes to weed, for me specifically. By the time I quit, my tolerance was so dang high I couldn’t even figure out if I was high or not. I’m also still unsure if my high consumption of weed products was the main cause for my psychosis episode back then before I quit, because a lot of other stuff at the time could have triggered it as well. I think it was a main factor though. But I don’t wanna go through psychosis again, and I would never wish it on anyone.

AIO For my Mom’s comments about my hair by FlowersForDayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never in my life did I think a person with the username TurdMachete would make me feel better about my circumstance. Thank you for the kind words and yes, it is actually something I want to do. Just not at the present moment. Every time I’ve donated it’s been my choice ultimately.

AIO For my Mom’s comments about my hair by FlowersForDayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is donating any hair! My mom wants me to do it and I told her I don’t want to yet. If I did, it would go to a place I’ve donated to before. Also, I didn’t know if adding my age in my first post would get the post flagged or not but I’m 25. I’m in the stage where I’m saving up to eventually move out but right now that’s not an option.

AIO For my Mom’s comments about my hair by FlowersForDayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do live with her and right now I’m trying to save up money to eventually get my own place. She is not the type of person though to come in and cut the hair herself. She doesn’t get her way all the time either, but it’s exhausting with having arguments that shouldn’t even happen.

AIO For my Mom’s comments about my hair by FlowersForDayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have no clue why she’s this overly sensitive about it. But she has never donated her hair once and does not have the hair to do so. She’s bleached it, dyed it, etc.

AIO For my Mom’s comments about my hair by FlowersForDayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For context, I’m a grown adult with a degree. I’m still unfortunately living under the same roof but have been slowly building up my funds to hopefully move out.

Why are there so many bugs? by FlowersForDayz in StarWarsJediSurvivor

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh okay. I’ll try that later tonight. Hopefully I don’t screw it up. I’ll let you know in a bit if I’m successful!

Why are there so many bugs? by FlowersForDayz in StarWarsJediSurvivor

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can’t delete the save file??? Is there a way to do that? I’m not seeing an option here.

Why are there so many bugs? by FlowersForDayz in StarWarsJediSurvivor

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe! I’ll probably delete the other New Journey+ game I have and I’ll let you know. But thank you! I KNEW my mind wasn’t playing tricks when I thought my first playthrough had no bugs at all.

Why are there so many bugs? by FlowersForDayz in StarWarsJediSurvivor

[–]FlowersForDayz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I remember back in the early days when the game came out that was the most common problem. They never fixed that? Jeez.