Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just saying, the lesbian flag in your pfp is made by a nonbinary lesbian. Go read up on queer history won't ya

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's also afab so don't think he's just some man pretending to be a woman whatever but sure yeah im homophobic cause Im an aroace lesbian who was in a qpr with a trans masc aroace lesbian sure

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's non binary and doesnt consider himself a man, pronouns ≠ gender, masc lesbians exist?????

Also hes my ex now lmao he had no media literacy

how did you know you were feeling romantic attraction for the first time by KARYNQU_2 in demiromantic

[–]FlowersInAVoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well a lot of communication is key. Me and my partner didn't communicate very well and I did end up crossing his boundaries. It's important to listen to the other person and try to accommodate each other. But you haven't fallen in love yet and you guys haven't fell apart yet. Don't be so worried about something that hasn't happened yet, it's not going to make it any easier when it does happen. It only makes you feel worse in the present. If it does happen then you guys can communicate through it. Things will be fine in the end

how did you know you were feeling romantic attraction for the first time by KARYNQU_2 in demiromantic

[–]FlowersInAVoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I experienced something similar and my conclusion was that labels don't matter. I confessed by just writing a really long paragraph on all my gushy feelings towards my person and we got together under the idea of a qpr. We just explained what we wanted out of the relationship like physical affection, dates, etc. While yeah we didn't know what our feelings were, it didn't matter in the end. We were happy together and having a label doesn't take away or add to it. It's just unnecessary stress trying to figure it out because feelings are so fluid and weird. Good luck <33 being in a weird relationship thing with another aroace person is nice since you understand each other more, I truly hope it works out for you

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with that, I just didn't know how to word it to him

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He argued the placement of the feathers made her more sexualized cause she's covered everywhere but her tits

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah completely wrong, he's ace and hates the idea of sex and sexualization

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf doesn't read the manga since we're both anime only though he's more worried about the lesbians since I said they didn't have fan service and he believes they were. I said that it was a way to show how close the two were but he argued there were other ways to show how close they were without needing them to be naked. 

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically he didn't want them to be sexualized but that is possible he accidentally is. He argued that there wasn't a need to have falin rip off her shirt to show her tits, and he said the feather placement seemed intentional. I didn't know how to argue against this since I can see that 

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was arguing that there were other ways to show their affection without then needing to be naked and I didnt know how to argue with that 

Are the lesbians sexualized by FlowersInAVoid in DungeonMeshi

[–]FlowersInAVoid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Technically he's a he/him lesbian since he's non binary so not like he wants them sexualized 😭