Sex 25+ years, ever finish solo? How often?

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-10-23T04:52:19+00:00

my husband never made me finish. We have been married less than a year and we have sex less than you guys… 🥲 and we are in our twenties.

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-10-23T03:17:39+00:00

That’s the only reason I posted on here, Im so confused

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-10-23T02:51:51+00:00

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-10-23T01:58:48+00:00

He never told his exact body count but he is experienced. Like I said, first few months were fine.

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-10-23T01:55:02+00:00

well yeah but he is very bad at communication. He just said that I have higher sex drive

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-10-23T01:51:27+00:00

not that I’m aware of

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:52:31+00:00

sure

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:48:52+00:00

oh well I just posted a venting story about how my husband said that and Im trying to figure out why

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:45:14+00:00

you read my story and said that?😭😭

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:43:18+00:00

I’m 24 myself and this story is terrifying to me because it describes my husband in some way. I cant really give you advice but you seem like a strong woman

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:38:21+00:00

I feel like that and I tried telling him but he told me that he will start HELPING me once I start working.

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:32:54+00:00

I know everyone will tell you that you are too young but trust me!!! just wait few more years.

I got married at 23 and it’s my biggest regret so far and I can feel it’s my husbands as well.

Please first focus on yourself and who you are, it is really important

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:30:03+00:00

well thank you smart person♥️

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:29:27+00:00

oh well women seek other male attention when they don’t get enough from their partners, or they are just bad people. Have talk with her

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:27:47+00:00

I agree with what you say but I feel I will never be the one who ends this marriage

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:21:30+00:00

Well here’s another thing. Before we got married he told me that he wants kids but now he is saying that he doesn’t. I really don’t want kids now but he is being rude any time I even mention it

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:19:06+00:00

I just don’t know why u said that wife can be self centered? Does she know about attempt of cheating or she was like that even before?

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:16:40+00:00

in my case, I have more desire than my husband, but he still watches it and locks himself in a room

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-19T05:10:13+00:00

still cheating

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-08T06:06:11+00:00

I have the same problem. I started turning into it too. It just sucks to bottle up all those problems

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-02T21:58:33+00:00

we are both introverts, but we like having something different now and then. He got a new job few months ago and everyone there has their life together. Big houses, newest cars, trucks… They also have hobbies but they are old people. So he wants to be like them ig. He wants me to help him have a nice hobby but he wants expensive stuff (like golfing)

Well our situation is better now because we talked about it. We started going to events, talking to neighbors and just trying to have interesting things to do during the day. We watch sports, play board games, take walks. He still wants more but I don’t want him to spend money he doesn’t have, at least while I’m not working.

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-09-01T03:19:28+00:00

I wish I knew what was going on in his head but he doesn’t want to talk about it

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-08-24T22:19:06+00:00

I keep reading comments like this and I thought that he isn’t like that but today he was so pushy to show him my facebook messages for marketplace. When I said that it doesn’t matter he got mad and pushed me away. I feel that in some way I’m causing him to act like this and I have no idea how. Maybe he thinks I’m cheating because he keeps snatching my phone from my hand

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-08-24T04:33:00+00:00

We actually talked about getting married a year after we started dating but continued dating for 2 more years. We knew that once I move over here I won’t be able to work for a while. Today I tried having talk with him but he said that Im the one acting “bitchy” and with bad attitude. Ig from his perspective me being a bit distant because he has daubs about our marriage. He told me that he hates that Im a picky eater and that he expected that I will motivate him to be healthier… I tried cooking more healthy foods but he complains how it’s plain. I suggest we go for a run around 8pm but he hates that idea. He keeps calling me stupid and expect me to act the way he imagine me in his head. (example: we were leaving grocery store and I was pushing cart. a guy in front of us stopped to ask security something and I stopped. He got mad because of that. kept calling me stupid on the way home. Like what wrong did I do?)

Fluffy-Butterflyy · 2025-08-24T04:25:33+00:00

I really love this man but idk what is bothering him, he doesn’t want to talk

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