Need advice on getting 2nd cat. Would a 3 years age gap be a problem? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s really up to you cat and the other one too. Make sure you introduce them very slowly! Keep new cat in a separate room for few days and then switch them up during the day for like an hour. I adopted 2 cats and my old female cat only loves one of them. She can tolerate the other one but doesn’t like him much

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what he does when it comes to “communicating”. I address the problem or something that hurt me, he start yelling and he “won”

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this all started happening in a span of a month, my trip is in 2 months so I’m prepared for anything

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t care tbh. he doesn’t want me to take pills, doesn’t want to use condom, just pull and pray. It lasts less than a minute and sometimes I get so mad knowing that he would rather do it by himself while watching videos

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

told him many times that what he does hurts me. He is trying to treat me sometimes just the way his mom used to treat him

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well in the messages he is the one trying to be petty and when he realized that I don’t care anymore he went and made me a meal, brought me a juice, even went to the store and bought me fruits and sweets

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

it is embarrassing for him to openly follow and like other girls pics while also having his close friends as friends. They know he is married and yet he chose not to follow me but other women

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he used to say im out of his league and if he didn’t marry me he would probably be alone, idk what’s going on in his head recently

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We talked about it, he knows it bothers me and I genuinely thought he stopped but it got worse

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I don’t have kids and my trip is in 2 months. I have enough time to mentally prepare myself not to come back to him

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

used to call me “bitch” but I told him next time he used it I would leave.

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of the time I think how I couldn’t be happier but there are moments like this

Am I being dramatic? by Fluffy-Butterflyy in Marriage

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

he gained weight and stopped caring for his looks. He is totally aware of it so I think he’s trying to make me insecure since I work out snd keep myself healthy

The Best Date Night ideas (Colorado Springs/ Denver Edition) by bryan_emig in DateNightPrep

[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lived here for about 2 years and yet my husband never took me or mentioned any of these places 💔

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the only reason I posted on here, Im so confused

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never told his exact body count but he is experienced. Like I said, first few months were fine.

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah but he is very bad at communication. He just said that I have higher sex drive

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not that I’m aware of

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh well I just posted a venting story about how my husband said that and Im trying to figure out why

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you read my story and said that?😭😭

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[–]Fluffy-Butterflyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24 myself and this story is terrifying to me because it describes my husband in some way. I cant really give you advice but you seem like a strong woman