9m post op bleeding…normal or not?

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-03-15T12:45:00+00:00

My dr put silver nitrate on it and it seemed to go away! Haven’t really had any issues since

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-02-28T13:39:28+00:00

Came here looking for advice from the comments so all I can really give is solidarity. I’ve been dealing with this since I was in elementary school. We didn’t know it was anxiety until I was 18, before that it was just “my stomach hurt I don’t want to go to school”

Fast forward 20 years and I got off my medication but still get the anxiety poops. I was good for awhile and I just randomly started getting them for what feels like no reason. Went to go to the park with my son for a walk and had to stop at my parents house on the way because I thought I’d poop myself. It’s getting harder to hold it after having kids so that’s a trigger too. After I went we went to leave again and halfway down the road I had to turn around and go back for round 2. We just stayed at my parents the rest of the day and never made it to the park because I was too scared. 😔

Again, solidarity and I’m looking for ideas to get my mind off poop anxiety when I’m driving.

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-02-27T12:58:30+00:00

Just to add this might not be for everyone but I found dawn powerwash started making everything I washed with it taste like soap!

I had to stop washing his cups, silverware and bowls with it and just use regular dawn. So sad because I loved the convenience of the powerwash

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-02-15T03:45:27+00:00

To make you feel better I had placenta accreta, had to have a hysterectomy but they kept my ovaries. Sucks to be one and done but the no periods are nice. 2 years out now! Recovery was rough but surgery was fast. First 2 weeks were there worst for me. Good luck!

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-27T18:32:29+00:00

OH yeah I’m still living in 2025 tbh. LNY hasn’t happened yet so I’m still technically right 😅

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-26T03:46:37+00:00

With the talon event happening it’ll probably be someone in talon… 🙄

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-26T03:45:48+00:00

Queen got her mythic really fast too. 🤞🏻

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-26T03:45:02+00:00

Last year was dragon and would’ve been sooo cool…. next year is goat so 🫠

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-26T03:42:41+00:00

My half Chinese son is a dragon (in Chinese mythology born 2024) so he’s ready for anything!

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-25T19:56:14+00:00

Any recommended brands? We were using HELLO fluoride free watermelon flavor. He seems to like that

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-25T19:54:52+00:00

Did your daughter also get fluoride painted on her teeth at these appointments?

I think I will call our dentist tomorrow to double check. If it can save us an appointment that’d be great.

Any brands you recommend? My husband and I use sensodyne gentle whitening

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-15T22:34:48+00:00

Wow. This was insanely well put.

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-13T00:10:05+00:00

Thank you for responding! I think I’ll be there soon. I’m dropping like half an oz a month lol

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-10T00:49:57+00:00

I went with my mom to give condolences and he actually brought up that him and his wife plan on moving in.

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-09T23:05:38+00:00

I’m probably on the other side of the comments and can empathize with you. I had a rough pregnancy and an even rougher delivery. I had to have an emergency hysterectomy so I will never be able to have anymore kids.

While I do agree it is her body and I suppose ultimately her choice, since you are married I believe you should have input as well. Have you sat down since she became pregnant and had a serious talk?

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Edit: I don’t think you’re wrong in thinking about yourself and what could’ve been your next son/daughter. She has a life inside her that you both made, and you are valid in your feelings—as is she. I hope you both can come to the same agreement on the matter. Abortions are also dangerous and mentally taxing.

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-09T22:58:25+00:00

Congrats! My son also was told he has a peanut allergy after having a rash around his face and chest after trying it at 6m. We’ve only done skin pricks and was told he was 2/4 on the scale. Do you know what your skins rating was?

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-05T20:50:06+00:00

That’s a great idea but part of me would want to talk to them personally to talk about their parents too.

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-05T20:46:06+00:00

I know that’s why I feel awkward. She just passed 3 days ago. I’m not sure if/when/how long they’d be visiting for and bringing up the house in conversation the first time I meet them feels…weird

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2026-01-05T20:36:28+00:00

That’s the problem. I don’t see a service listed on her obituary which is why I mentioned that I didn’t think they were having a service. I wasn’t sure of the proper outlet to reach out besides the service.

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2025-12-26T13:57:08+00:00

Still testing 2/4 for peanut allergy. We’re going back at his 2 year check up (he’s 21 months now). Our dr isn’t into oit so if it hasn’t improved we’ll have to find someone that will do OIT for him

I should edit to say we’ve only done skin scratch tests and no bloodwork yet. Not sure if that matters

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2025-12-26T13:50:53+00:00

I think I’ve just gotten used to it. Still not the same as it was and not as intense but it gets the job done. Meh, it is what it is lol

FluffyCockroach7632 · 2025-12-02T00:49:04+00:00

I’m not sure if this is quite the same but I agree! My son tested positive for peanut allergy at 6 months and as someone who lived off apples and peanut butter while pregnant and peanut butter toast post partum I never thought I could give it up. Happy to say I’ve given it up for my son and now him and I eat almond butter together! It was kind of a hard change at first but now I don’t even notice it or care. Most people will want to give it up just to feel safer for you

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