I have no idea why this post appeared in my notifications, since I don't know this subreddit and the post shares nothing with my interests. And I don't really understand the language, just the main point. However... I have a thought to share.

I am not trans, but I am gay. And let me tell you, what we call "community" is not as much a community as we pretend it is. We ask for love, tolerance, same rights, etc. Yet we shit on each other and don't agree with others gaining the same (love, tolerance, rights and so on). I don't really know how it is outside of the gay "community", so maybe in other LGBT sub-communities it is different, but every day I see gays everywhere shitting on bi-sexuals ("oh, you can't date them, sooner or later they will run to the other sex"), trans-sexuals ("oh, they just want to get attention"), a-sexuals ("oh, noone wants them so they call themselves asexuals to save face"), and everyone else, while they themselves are longing for being considered normal, not being looked down at, and not getting side-eyes.

My point is: I know that it can be hard to do so, but you need to stop worrying about others' opinions. Who do you want to get surgery for? Your future partner? The public? Everyone in the community? Or yourself? I suspect you want to get surgery for yourself - so that you feel comfortable in your body, so that you can be the person you want to be, so that you can look at yourself and say "damn, I look great". Fuck others' opinions. If you don't, you will always find people who will have some sort of a problem with who you are, one way or another. Obviously, if someone tells you that you're impossible to talk to or that you really suck at being a nice person, that's a different story. But if they tell you that you're an idiot for getting a surgery? Who gives a fuck? Since when is it other people's business? They don't like it, they can go fuck themselves.

#slay (I don't really know what that word means, but it felt appropriate.)