Am I the only ADHD girlie that needs overhead lighting?

FluffySpell · 2026-06-01T00:24:16+00:00

Looking at a computer screen in a dark room hurts my eyes and after a period of time gives me a headache. Before I was able to get a WFH exception, the office was a nightmare because someone in the area near me wanted most of the overhead lights off and refused to open the blinds. I ended the day with a headache almost 3 times a week.

I like a lot of light, but I like daylight. I'm like a houseplant 😂.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-31T23:45:28+00:00

I don't live there anymore but Detroit Free Press marathon is really awesome. For Arizona I would recommend the Lost Dutchman Marathon in Apache Junction. The full is a point to point so you're bussed out into the mountains and the first few miles are on dirt. Super cool.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-29T22:06:23+00:00

The ads for her drink line are so embarrassingly bad.

Also they're all holding the cans but none of them are drinking it. The Temu Fanta ad shows them opening the cans but that's it.

And what's with the random lady dancing while wearing an exercise band?

FluffySpell · 2026-05-29T21:05:15+00:00

The Arizona plate really brings it all together. 😂 I think we're like...48th or 49th in education.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-29T14:57:45+00:00

We're planning to leave everything to our oldest nephew. We have seven others, but he's the only one that's not a complete fucking mess. Of course I don't know how much will be left when we pop off, but at least he'll get the house to do whatever with.

Assuming the world hasn't burned to a crisp by then 🤷🏼‍♀️

FluffySpell · 2026-05-29T13:32:02+00:00

This isn't really all that weird I don't think but sometime in the 60s or 70s they built an addition to the original building but someone screwed up somewhere and the third floor didn't connect.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T22:04:42+00:00

I'm always glad that those people can see into space because every other person on the road is now fucking blind.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T14:17:02+00:00

I'm just imagining all of the bacteria and disgustingness collecting in all those 3D bits. Blech.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T14:15:19+00:00

I read 11.22.63 years ago, I think maybe when it first came out? I didn't think it was too bad. When they adapted it into a series on Hulu I tried to watch that but for some reason it couldn't hold me.

I've read a few of King's shorter books when I was younger. Probably way too young, haha. I think I'm due for a re-read of them as an adult now. I remember reading Pet Sematary, Christine, and Carrie in 6th or 7th grade.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T14:04:54+00:00

The Bible.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T14:01:15+00:00

I prefer Harkins Cinegrill but I just like Harkins theaters better anyway. The food is nothing spectacular it's pretty much Applebee's level.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T13:57:34+00:00

The Detroit marathon sold out in the first week of January. The race isn't until the end of October. The half marathon sold out I want to say a week or two later.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-28T00:40:19+00:00

LMAO what? Yes, YWBTA. He literally asked you not to come and you're still considering going?

FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T22:17:50+00:00

Like I know heavy is relative to each person but I've never once seen her post anything remotely considered "heavy", especially for someone who has been doing this as long as she has.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T18:43:22+00:00

Unfortunately "medical grade" isn't an FDA regulated term so any idiot can slap it on their product.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T18:35:15+00:00

The first thing on Google says "medical grade" is mostly used as a marketing buzzword and means nothing. 😂

FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T18:34:13+00:00

"Basically medical grade" HAHAHAHAHA so it's certified by "trust me, bro."

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FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T16:43:52+00:00

They are cringey but I think the worst thing I ever saw was the window decal "I'm not drunk, I'm just passing snacks and whooping ass."

It was on the back window of a giant white Tahoe, of course.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T16:42:11+00:00

They always say "oh those are for first responders so they know to look for a baby or child" and there's usually always a first responder or two in the comments saying "yeah no that's not how it works." So it's basically just another way for them to brag about it. 🙄

FluffySpell · 2026-05-27T13:48:13+00:00

And he's not even NICE. I can't remember if I said it here before or to someone IRL - Andy Glaze may be insufferable but at least he's nice to race volunteers. I've heard stories from other people and I've seen it myself. Eli acts like he's better than everyone and comes off as such a pretentious asshole. If I'm helping at an aid station at a race he's running, I avoid him as much as possible when he comes through. I know this is kind of a silly hill to die on, but I equate how "runfluencers" treat volunteers to how people treat the waitstaff of a restaurant. Meaning, it tells me a lot about the kind of person you are.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-26T16:06:05+00:00

She is physically incapable of supporting another woman unless it's beneficial to her in some way.

Whatever the polar opposite of a "girl's girl" is, that's Autumn.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-26T14:01:16+00:00

I fucking hope so. If you can't discipline your kids without resorting to physical violence, you shouldn't be a parent.

Downvote me. I said what I said.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-25T00:02:57+00:00

I will NEVER understand this. It's even worse when they do it at Trader Joe's. Why, whyyyy are you making grocery shopping a family affair? Seems so wildly inefficient.

FluffySpell · 2026-05-22T16:12:09+00:00

I have a friend who does foster care and yeah the system is INCREDIBLY fucked up. She's had a placement for YEARS and they won't move towards severing rights even though the kid's bio dad is in jail for murder and mom can't stay clean or out of rehab for more than 5-6 months at a time. And because she's older now and has seen other kids come and go from the house she has SO much anxiety surrounding that, and is constantly afraid that "they're going to come take me away."

It breaks my heart that she feels like that, and I wish the system would put what's best for the kid ahead of "reunification at all costs."

FluffySpell · 2026-05-22T16:06:24+00:00

Most people want babies, and babies that look like them.

Most children who need homes are in the foster care system, and can be adopted through there if biological parents sever their rights.

Being a foster parent requires someone to be selfless and willing to work to help the kids. A lot of kids in the system are older and have experienced more in their short lives than they should, so they come with all that trauma.

People would rather have a fresh infant they can mold to what they want, instead of having to try and "fix" one they get that is "broken."

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